Quote Originally Posted by Vela
I agree with you. The only thing in this instance with the OP is her husband DID remember, it really wasn't his doing that the flowers were late. A card and flowers saying I love you seem very adequate to me, and a thoughtful gesture, so to ME, it seemed odd that someone would be so mad about not getting another present as well. I could see her being upset if maybe he blew the whole thing off and didn't care at all but that's not what happened.

Glacier, great post.

I couldn't agree more.

Also, I hope the OP Significant other doesn't see this thread. She didn't paint him in a flattering light and I know if it were my spouse saying things like that about me I would be very upset. and that IS a valid reason to be angry. I understand she was upset but I think saying things like that (even thinking things like that) really hurts a relationship. lobodeb, you say things aren't well between you two besides this birthday thing. I am very sorry I hope you guys can talk it out and get back on track.