Hi Sue, sorry to hear things are going so poorly. Just want to send you some (((cyber hugs))) from JoJoe & me, and woo-woo from Star and some snuffles from Sherman. Sounds like things are going from bad to worse . I'm so sorry to hear about Nanook, don't we all wish they could live forever? I will keep Joe's boss, your Uncle and Grandmother, your friend's family, Nanook and Spurr, and YOU, my friend, in my prayers.
Call or pm me, I've been at the depths before myself. May not have any brilliant words of wisdom to share, but I'm willing to listen and just be there for you. Oh - and hugs hugs hugs to that Kaige character! Loads of kisses to sweet Indy, Nanook and Raustyk. I send a hug for Joe, too.