I'm right there with you!
But we're in the basement with all the lights on and the TV blasting loud!
If it's not in the middle of the night, I vacuum too!!
You should talk to your vet about Acepromazine. I used it for a little while with Buddy, but it got to the point that I would have to give him 3 pills to take the edge off, then that dosage started affecting his breathing. So now the vet prescribes Valium for him. It's hit or miss, sometimes it works, and sometimes it doesn't even if given at the same time (1 1/2 - 2 hours before the storm)
Have you tried any over the counter stuff you can buy at the pet store?
Rescue Remedy, DAP plug in comfort zone... etc.
I bought something quite a while ago that was just called "Calm Down"
There are a lot of things you can try.
Have you tried to desensitize him?
Good Luck!
Trust me... I know how you feel!!