Good for you having the kitties neutered and taking them to the vet today. Did you ever find any trace of the missing kitten? Hope momma cat and the other kitten are doing well. Yes, this forum is a good place to learn things. I am sorry to read about the divorce of your mom and dad - but glad that you and your mom are doing better now.

Keep posting and let us know how everyone is doing after the vet visit ok?