Miss Z- if I might debate with you....I do understand the concept of parents, having them myself. And, I do understand the limitations of youth, having been there before. What I struggle with is being 14, 15 or even older, and the claim, "They won't let me" or "I am only 14". Why? Because I remember all too well being that age, and knowing dern well I could get alot of what I wanted with whining, pleading, arguing, or flat out just doing it without permission. So, now, when it comes to something serious, like an animal in distress (and, I think CM was referring to this particular post), and I hear this "They won't let me...", I think, "oh, okay! All of a sudden you have become this subserviant, obedient, never do anything without asking child".

I would wager that many of these children using this argument, "They won't let me", routinely-daily-weekly- go against their parents wishes, or don't even ASK their parents- when it fancys them. I find the excuse a total cop-out. And, IMO, it is completly opposite to the claim of "I love animals".

And, of course, I question ANY adult that "refuses" their child's request to assist an animal in need. That adult should be the one leading the assistance.