Mine are definitely allowed on the bed, in fact I sleep much better if they are there!

Prema is always there unless it's unbearably hot, in that case she sleeps beside the bed. She is not overkeen on the other two sharing the bed though She doesn't mind Foxy sharing with us but at night he does the rounds and usually prefers to sleep in a basket.

Since my parents had to come and live with me Maya spends the night with them