Liz, I think you're right, most men don't appear to want to show feelings too much, but I'm sure your son is devastated. It's a long time to have a sweet companion, as Charlie were, and it must feel so empty now. Some people think that getting another cat right away will help, but I don't believe so, as no one can replace a loved one. I still miss Pjevs in the yard.

I hope it will be a comfort for him ... and you, to know that it was time for Charlie to go. He is not suffering now.

(((((hugs)))))