Thanks for the advice. I've been with this girl pretty much my whole life, 9 years and I'm 14 now. She's always been a drama queen, and she has done many things to get attention, bad things. I know she has issues, but whenever we try to help her she just gets worse. I've always been understanding of her, but now we've all just snapped. She's done so much that's hard to put behind you. I think she does these hurtful actions on purpose to be honest, but if she does in fact make herself forget, then I can understand that, because in a way she's not aware of it.