During play practice today, I told the director. She gave me a hug and told me that sometimes directors get stressed and say stuff without thinking and that they don't really mean. She said the best I can do is roll it off and if I wanted to say sometime to her, I can. She said that most likely the teacher would apologize and probably not even remember she said that to me. So also tell her about the dog comment and she said that she in no way could defend her on that one because the teacher is obsessed with her dog!