Quote Originally Posted by kuhio98
What catnapper said. Dating is like trying on people to see if they fit. He didn't fit. No problem. Good to know now instead of a year from now after you've wasted more time.

It's kind of like when you see some great jeans. They look beautiful hanging on the rack but when you try them on, they just don't feel right. You could buy them anyway, and you'd wear them, but they never would be comfortable.

Go to the party. Have fun. When friends ask you, just tell them that you guys decided to just be friends. It sounds like he just realized before you did (even though your instincts were telling you that something wasn't right) that you guys just don't fit. Handle yourself with calm composure. Another guy you're interested in may be at the party.

I realized everything you guys said last night. We were dating for... 3ish weeks? We hadn't kissed yet, and we just seemed more like friends. Joking, play fighting, just brother sister type stuff.

I just don't want to dwell on it. The way I look at it, at least we still have our friendship. Neither of us took it hard, we're gonna be friends. It's okay, I'm okay, I'll move on. Like I said, we hadn't even kissed, and I'm sort of glad we didn't because it would have been harder to split that way.

I'm fine now. I was sad before because actually, I had just finished making his Valentine's Day card when I saw he had signed on. Talk about IRONY! Lmao.

My plan is to enjoy myself tonight. I'm going to have a great time. We'll be friends like we used to be. There's someone better out there for me, I know it.

I love you guys.