She should have been yours and C.Js! There are very few kitties who have that special something that grabs people from the first meeting. If both you & Terry had that 'feeling' about Lindsey, it's too bad you didn't just p**s off hubby and bring her home for a try out. I have had a few very memorable rescues out of the hundreds who've spun through the revolving doors here, and felt such intense loss when those exceptional ones left. But the flip side on a few memorables is people I know adopted some. (Like Birdie, and Gracie & Gabriel. Lets all hope that Lindsey doesn't work out in her new home (hmmm alllergies)..and when Debbie & Terry get back, she'll be waiting!