Duh! I forgot all about Feliway (perhaps because its currently out of my budget range ) I will try to keep them separated. I was even thinking of giving Abby some sort of kitty Prozac (I have some that was intended for Pouncer, but he didn't need it by the time I got it) Maybe a week of kitty prozac would be sufficient to show her he's not all bad. I don't know.... they used to cuddle and love each other Even Flutter knows Pouncer's just a sweetheart in hissy boy clothing.