My brother is an "Amy". He complains, complains, complains. Nothing positive ever comes out of his mouth. There's always something wrong. I can't remember what he was yammering on about one day when I said something like "Well, if you're that miserable, why don't you quit?" He turned to me with a totally shocked expression on his face and said, "I'm not miserable, I love my job." I think with him it's just a habit to complain and bi!ch. He doesn't really mean it. So, I just ignore it.

Maybe "Amy" is one of those people? Still doesn't make it fun to be around, but it could be that she doesn't even realize how negative she is. She probably never will and she'll always wonder why people run the other way when they see her coming.