Originally posted by Cataholic
Catnapper, your friend is nuts.
I think so too. I am helpless but ot sit by and watch her make a HUGE mistake.

Who knows, he might be the real deal. She HAS been talking to him since the divorce papers were filed.

Its so funny... for years and years I'd beg her to go online, so we could talk via email and possibly IM. She flat-out refused. Then a few weeks after the divorce papers were filed, I got an e-mail from her. I was excited she finally joined me online. We chatted a few times, then all of the sudden she started telling me about all these men she was meeting and flirting online with. I let it pass because I knew she was trying to feel good about herself by having these men "interested" in her.

She was relatively smart about it and only kept it to flirting, never revealing info about herself and such. But this guy, she met him about 9 months ago and she has told him her life story from the beginning... maybe because it felt safe to tell someone halfway around the world. Maybe she thought nothing would ever come of it. Who knows... but I've been cautious about this guy since day one. NOBODY is as perfect as he's portraying himself to be. He also claims to have a daughter the same age as my firend's oldest daughter... all too nice and perfect!