*hugs* It will all be ok!! I'll be thinking of you and praying for you and your family!

PS ADD isn't as horrible as some people like to make it out to be. I have ADD and I've never taken any medication for it (although some people wanted me to ) I learned to control it through meditation and concintration and I always advocate trying to control it without medication first, since the meds can be very bad for some people. Always explore every option you can!

Be well and *more hugs* to you in this difficult time.