I'm sorry to hear the problems you are having lately. So much going on for you and all seems to be so negative right now. I think you may eventually be able to find a "cat friendly" apartment, but it may take some more looking. Usually apartments who allow pets charge a slightly higher rent to offset any damage they may cause. Your dad might not be happy about that. When we were having our house built, our former home was sold and our new one wasn't finished. We had to get a month-to-month lease at an apartment to wait for our new home to be finished. The charge back then (20 yrs. ago) was $15.00 per month per pet added on top of the rent. I assume nowadays it is more. Good luck to you. This has to be so hard.

Souraya, I am so sorry you grew up "petless." I can see you have started to make up for it with Drake!! Good girl! I see lots of furkids in your future!