Kelly,

I didn't mean to make you feel bad my post was to try to help me understand. And I have loved a cat for 12 years and had to have her PTS due to cancer. I had her treated for the cancer and they didn't get it all. It came back after 5 months so I know what it is like to have to make that decision. It was hard to understand from just a couple of lines. And that was the whole reason I posted to help me understand. Maybe it was worded wrong. And I have questioned it often. You can ask a lot of people here I am not one to say things to hurt or make people feel bad. I am the complete opposite. If you look thought the posts here in Cat Memorial you will see I have done tributes to many a loved pet. You will also see it in Dog Memorial. I am sorry if I made you feel bad and that my post bothered you. I thought you would understand that I was trying to understand. Again I am sorry.

Michelle