I am interested in getting a Tiel. I have a few questions that I need answered.

Why do you do if your Tiel nips at you? - The website I was on said to tap its beak of hold it, I don't agree with this at all so are there any alternatives?

How do you teach it the "step up" or "down" (step on/get off finger) command?

Do you think it is okay to buy a tiel from a pet store?

What are the pros and cons of getting a female?

Since I am a first time owner should I be getting a female or male?

Thanks!

Oh, and if anyone has some good websites, I would love to check them out!