My cousin and his wife adopted a baby from China. They waited it out for a long, long time, unfortunately, and ended up having their own baby before the adoption came through! Isn't that how it goes so many times? Anyway, when their new baby was 5 weeks old, they left to go to China, with the new baby boy staying with his grandparents. Now both "babies" are doing beautifully together. My cousin says that they could not be happier.

Best wishes to you and your husband.

Logan