We've gotten to the point where we have to completely separate Shadow from Whisper as he will not leave her alone causing her to pee in anger. She seems content being in the room while we are gone and no one is bothering her anymore. Callie stays with her (she's there right now actually) and they watch the birdies together through the window. I would hate to rehome her or him as I love them both and right now the situation seems to be working out--if I ever thought she was unhappy, I would probably have to go to rehome one of them. Let's hope it never comes to that.