Well, I just can't imagine anything worse! My heart is breaking for you both and especially for that precious Heather.
Kim, how could you have known? It wasn't your fault but I can understand how bad you feel. I would feel the same way even though I couldn't have done anything to prevent it. Don't blame yourself and remember that some things just happen and there is nothing you could have done to change it.
Willie, God love you, what a bad time you are having. You poor thing! It will get better Willie and know that we love you and you are in our thoughts and prayers. This precious little girl was just needed at the RB and had to go. She must be awful special and I'm glad you got to meet her.

At least something good came from this and you and Kim got to meet.

{{{{{HUGS}}}}} to everyone involved.