Wow,does that ever soundlike a recipe,for disaster,and I would try,to get custody,of that Little One.I wouldnt leave Scratchy,with that Girl,and I am not fond,of Scratchy,at all.I am sure,that you brought her up,right,but there are so amny people,who choose,tolive thier lives,as adult children,taking no responsibility,for the things that they do,and the chioces,that they make.And your granddaughter,deserves a lot better.Prayers,are on thier way,from The Found Cat Hotel.