I'd say try again from the beginning - keep them separate for a time where they can smell each other - trade blankets for them to sleep on. Always feed Mina first, pet her first, give her her treats first no matter what. I didn't start out right with mine and went back to the beginning and tried again and it is much better. My male cat did draw blood - a scratch between the eyes - scared me! I picked him up and with my hubby cut his claws. He did nOT like that. I see she has another scar now. But she does ask for it - she backs him in corners and won't let him get anywhere near us - but it is getting better. She feels much better if we back her up and give her lotts of extra attention in front of him. I'm eating it up too since usually she doesn't like to be petted - She does when he is watching! haha Good luck - and if it doesn't work maybe you will find someone who will take him. If you get it to work out please tell me how! Debbie