I may be out of line sticking my nose in this but I just can't leave it alone. Do you feel better after crapping on Tina??? Will it change anything?? You don't like what she's done in the past, repeatedly, but what gives you the right to sit in judgement of her? People respond much better to praise than criticism, something you should all know from dealing with your pets. I am very disappointed.

Tina, dear, I don't know you, I know a bit about the story. I know you are troubled, but now is the time to make a new start. Take things one day at a time and when you do something that's great feel free to share it for a pat on the head.

All creatures deserve kindness, no matter how many times my rotten Ferret Rascal bit me I still loved the little fart and cried like a baby for his loss when he died suddenly and unexpectedly.