Aly, I don't think anyone thinks you're being mean, or calling names (and if they do, they don't know you at all). I think, like Jessica said, some people may have a knee jerk reaction to your choice of words. I know you don't think I'm a cruel pet owner, or I wouldn't have Digger... Uh, Cinny. BTW - she's getting her own sandbox this weekend!

Yes, it may be a band aid, but if it works for some people and some dogs, then great. I say whatever works and makes a happy cohesive family is good. I never said I liked the prong collar either, but I think it can be a useful tool.

Now, stop trying to defend yourself and give Reecie Pie & Lolly Pops a kiss for me!