Oh Slick, {{{HUGS}}} that is very touching and I'm sorry you lost your dad all those years ago.

I refused to see my grandmom for the last two years of her life. I thought I was right and she was wrong. I made peace with her until her deathbed. Her DEATHBED! She died 5 years ago this month. I regret not having swallowed my arrogant pride and spent time with her when I could. How I'd love to talk to her know and let her know I understand now and know why she did everything she did. I shudder to imagine what my guilt would be if I never made up with her at the end.