I had to go to the Hospital..time for a Gypsy Update

[sandragonfly]

just that I think you asked hard questions, I'd feel a bit defensive especially it happened just yesterday. kalei may be different from me but again, my opinion speaking in general. I didn't say you can't ask, wouldn't a PM be less too much?

I'm on a pager, is why I asked! thank you.

[Argranade]

I'm so sorry about that but so glad your ok with no broken bones!

Your horse is so beautiful and I hope everything works out.

[critter crazy]

just that I think you asked hard questions, I'd feel a bit defensive especially it happened just yesterday. kalei may be different from me but again, my opinion speaking in general. I didn't say you can't ask, wouldn't a PM be less too much?

I'm on a pager, is why I asked! thank you.

I dont think any of those questions were "Hard". I think they are all questions that needs to be asked. If anything, questions she should ask herself, before putting herself in this situation again.

I have been severely hurt by a horse, and after sitting back and asking myself what went wrong, It was plain to see that It was my fault not the horses. I still to this day have Hip problems from my accident. I am just trying to make sure she dosent get hurt anymore than she already has!

Edit to add: If you are so against what I asked, why keep bringing it up here, and why not go to PM's Yourself!

[sandragonfly]

I understand your concern really, just some timings are right.

I meant to PM in second response but I never thought it would get too sensitive, now I think differently of you.

so, nevermind.

[shais_mom]

ok I've read this 3 times Gina and just can't get over how you make it about yourself again.
Not everyone likes to or HAS to communicate via pm's like you do.
I think you would make every post a pm and god forbid someone else doesn't.

[The_Duck]

Kalei, I'm so sorry that happened to you. But I'm extremly grateful that you're alright. And I'm glad that your dad is willing to work with Gypsy. She really is such a beautiful mare. I really hope things owrk out for you all.

[Kalei]

I am so glad you are okay, as it could have been much worse!! Did you not ride her before purchasing her??? If so, how did you not notice her issues?? I would never buy such a horse,a s I am not a professional trainer, and this is exactly what this horse needs. I sure hope your dad has enough experiance to deal with her, but one must wonder, as he allowed you to ride, and work with such a horse. I also must ask, while working with such a horse, why another horse was even allowed in the area?? I am not trying to be mean, i am just concerned, for you and the horse.

Haha its okay everyone! No arguments needed, I understand both your sides and no I don't mind answering those questions. I am okay, no broken bones, I am lucky it could have been alot worse. She could have crushed my head instead of kicked it. And I know its not her fault at all. She was scared because of the other horse that snuck up behind her. First question, no I did not ride her before purchasing her (stupid I know, now I know I should have) I went by the seller's words and he said that the horse had been ridden before at a stable and was fine. As for her attitude, no that was not apparent when she was at the horse farm becuase she was around 20 some other horses so she was acting like a normal calm horse then.

My father, no he's not experience, but the place we are boarding her at, the owner is experienced. It just so happened that yesterday he wasn't home. And when it comes to the other horse still being in the area with Gypsy...that is all my parents fault. I told them a million times that they should seperate the horses from her when they are doing stuff. But they wouldn't listen to me...and now see what happened? So it was a 'told you so' kind of thing.

Anyways all if fine, I am really sore today from being rolled on the ground and kicked but I will mend. And I'm just glad this didn't drive my father to give up on her. But it will be a little bit before I go back out and do much with her. I need to heal at least first.

Thanks so much for all your concerns and I certainly don't mind answering the questions.

[critter crazy]

Haha its okay everyone! No arguments needed, I understand both your sides and no I don't mind answering those questions. I am okay, no broken bones, I am lucky it could have been alot worse. She could have crushed my head instead of kicked it. And I know its not her fault at all. She was scared because of the other horse that snuck up behind her. First question, no I did not ride her before purchasing her (stupid I know, now I know I should have) I went by the seller's words and he said that the horse had been ridden before at a stable and was fine. As for her attitude, no that was apparent when she was at the horse farm becuase she was around 20 some other horses so she was acting like a normal calm horse then.


My father, no he's not experience, but the place we are boarding her at, the owner is experienced. It just so happened that yesterday he wasn't home. And when it comes to the other horse still being in the area with Gypsy...that is all my parents fault. I told them a million times that they should seperate the horses from her when they are doing stuff. But they wouldn't listen to me...and now see what happened? So it was a 'told you so' kind of thing.

Anyways all if fine, I am really sore today from being rolled on the ground and kicked but I will mend. And I'm just glad this didn't drive my father to give up on her. But it will be a little bit before I go back out and do much with her. I need to heal at least first.

Thanks so much for all your concerns and I certainly don't mind answering the questions.

Good to hear. Once again I am sorry it happened, I know how much it sucks to get run over by a horse. Been there and done that! And it isnt fun.

Glad to hear your dad will have some help, I sure hope this gorgeous girl can turn around for you all. She sure is pretty.

I cant even begin to imagine how your dad feels about the whole thing. I guess it was definitely an eye opener for him. I would definitely hold that over his head, at least till christmas! He he he he!!

[shais_mom]

Oh my gosh, I am so very very sorry for both the mental and physical pain you are in. As much as you love her I know that all of this must be a great disappointment to you and the family. Still it is not her fault and with lots of love and training she will turn around. It's too bad that the people who sold her to you were not honest about her personality. With an animal as big as a horse (no pun) personality is so important. I am sure she will calm down in time. Every thing is new to her, the home the rules the training. She must feel a great deal of stress and confusion and that is why she is acting out. Patience and love with a firm hand. I know she will become the wonderful horse you have wanted soon. Good luck, be safe.

As much as I love horses I don't know much about them but I have heard of people giving the horse tranquilizers to make it appear sedate and calm and then when it comes home without them it turns into a hellcat. I'm not implying that Gypsy's owners did this but it appears that he wasn't altogether forthcoming with her history.

[Kalei]

Good to hear. Once again I am sorry it happened, I know how much it sucks to get run over by a horse. Been there and done that! And it isnt fun.

Glad to hear your dad will have some help, I sure hope this gorgeous girl can turn around for you all. She sure is pretty.

I cant even begin to imagine how your dad feels about the whole thing. I guess it was definitely an eye opener for him. I would definitely hold that over his head, at least till christmas! He he he he!!

lol oh I will hold it over his head, remind him to seperate the horses. It was horrifying for him. He was so close to me, yet all he could do was watch his daughter get trampled and go to me when the horse was done. Its the most worried I've ever seen him before. And my mom was there too, she was crying, they said they couldn't stand the feeling, like they may have been watching their daughter get killed right in front of their eyes....but the good part is I did not die lol

Shais mom, I'm not sure if he did that or not, cuase she was friggin hyper and frisky when I got her off the trailer, she was trying to pull me everywhere. After thinking about it, I just started to realize that this farm is like a puppy mill, 80 some horses, that he doesn't know much about, he just sells them. The main ones he makes sure he knows about is the registered ones. And Gypsy wasn't registered.

[critter crazy]

As much as I love horses I don't know much about them but I have heard of people giving the horse tranquilizers to make it appear sedate and calm and then when it comes home without them it turns into a hellcat. I'm not implying that Gypsy's owners did this but it appears that he wasn't altogether forthcoming with her history.

This definitely happens. Most times it is to hide lameness, but it is also done to calm a horse. That is the problem with buying horses, and it is also a very good reason to Bring a vet with you, and to do an exam on spot. There are just way too many people out there that you cannot trust. Nine times out of ten, if the deal is too good to be true, then it is!

[critter crazy]

lol oh I will hold it over his head, remind him to seperate the horses. It was horrifying for him. He was so close to me, yet all he could do was watch his daughter get trampled and go to me when the horse was done. Its the most worried I've ever seen him before. And my mom was there too, she was crying, they said they couldn't stand the feeling, like they may have been watching their daughter get killed right in front of their eyes....but the good part is I did not die lol


Shais mom, I'm not sure if he did that or not, cuase she was friggin hyper and frisky when I got her off the trailer, she was trying to pull me everywhere. After thinking about it, I just started to realize that this farm is like a puppy mill, 80 some horses, that he doesn't know much about, he just sells them. The main ones he makes sure he knows about is the registered ones. And Gypsy wasn't registered.

Sounds like he might be a Horse trader, which is just about the same as BYB. The only difference is, they dont breed usually. they just buy up horses cheap, and turn them back around for a profit! Not caring about the horses themselves, just the money. And of course, they get their horses cheap, cause usually they have issues. Medical or other.

[sandragonfly]

kalei, glad you're still okay - nothing too much in pain and no broken bones - rest very much!

as helping gyspy, don't you think you're gonna have a talk with the seller? may not worth it but I think he should pay the price for it. you got hurt!

don't worry, didn't see this as an argument, the questions were edited out though. sorry for hjacking. ((be careful)), hope things work out! and for gyspy too. keep us posted okay?

[Chilli]

Goodness, sounds painful.
I am happy to hear that you all didn't give up on Gypsy. I bet she has the potential to be a wonderful companion. She's already got great looks, now we're just waiting for her personality to shine.
Good vibes headed your way for a quick recovery!

[Vela]

Glad you didn't get hurt worse. I'd consider hiring a professional trainer for a month or two to help you deal with her issues. Consistency and firmess will go a long way. I hope you guys are able to figure out what to do about her problems and I really hope nobody gets hurt again. Horses definintely are dangerous if they have that kind of mind.

I know you are probably upset by all that has happened, you wanted a companion and friend and instead got an horse with mental/physical issues. But I bet you have sure learned a lot about buying a horse for the next time around and I hope it works out better in the future. Always have the owner ride it first, then try it yourself. Always do all the things you'd want to do at home like saddling, bridling, picking out hooves, bathing, grooming, loading in a trailer, etc., before you ever buy. And have a vet check done as well before handing over your hard earned cash. Sounds like you got her fro a horse broker and that's too bad =( I feel bad for you that it turned out like that but I hope she comes around and things go better for you.