Was told to give up on Luna because she's too expensive!

[Kirsten]

I thank you all for your support!! I know some of you were (or are) in the same situation.

I hope you don't think that I'm one of these irresponsible pet owners who adopted a pet and cannot care for it. My financial situation was better when I adopted Luna. It's not that had more money, but life wasn't this expensive, only a couple of years ago. I'm not the only one here affected by this, it's hard for many people now. I'm desperately trying to find a way to save some money, but there isn't much left to do. I replaced my light bulbs by energy saving bulbs, and I will stop playing the lottery (which always meant to be a small glimmer of hope for a better life), but now I need to save the money for Luna.

And please do not think that I need much money for myself! For years, I buy my clothes second-hand (if I buy any clothes at all, most of the things I wear are several years old), I buy my books on amazon market place, and I never go out. When I saw the new Harry Potter movie two weeks ago, it was the first time for more than I year that I went to the movies. Oh, and btw, I never go on vacation. The last time it was in 1991, a hitch hiking trip to Sweden with a friend...

There would indeed be an emptiness in my life if I didn't have my cats! Sometimes they seem to be the only thing that bring some happiness into my life.

Freedom, I discussed the option to skip the ultrasound with my vet today, but she would also like to see her bladder. As she found crystals in her urine, we need to find out if there's a stone also. Or a tumor.

Sandra, it's true, the person who said that doesn't have any pets. But he and his family are facing a similar financial situation like I do, and he knows how hard it is. His wife has lost her job, and he knows that he will lose his in a year from now. I still have my job, but even though it's a fulltime job, paying all the bills isn't easy. For example, the prices for electricity and gas (heating) are now almost 10% of my gross income, and the prices are constantly rising. And almost every day, you read and hear about things that are getting more expensive, food included. And the price for gasoline is up to 1,90 $US/liter. (4,4 liter make 1 gallon). It's just scary! Life was so much easier in the 80s and 90s, I'd never thought the new millennium would bring so many things to worry about - but it did.


But don't worry, I won't give up on Luna. Just look into her face, it's impossible to have thoughts like this when you look into her eyes:



Kirsten

[Medusa]

Kirsten, I can't imagine that anyone would judge you re finances. I think I can say that we've all been there; I know I sure have. And we all get moments when we think "How in the world am I going to be able to afford this?" But somehow there's always a way. And there will be for you, too. You don't need to justify how you use your money either. You're entitled to new clothes on occasion and seeing the Harry Potter movie is hardly going to break the bank. Rest easy, girl. Everyone here on PT is your friend, not your judge.

[catmandu]

We knew that you would never give up on Luna.
I think I didnt go as far with my Pouncer as I should have due to money and I have felt guilty for 14 yeras.
I will never let that happen again as that bad feeling will never go away.


I still think of Pouncer and hope she has forgiven me.

[moosmom]

Oh, and please don't get me wrong, Luna's health will always be my main concern, not the money, but I know that many here have been at this point in the past, so you will probably understand...

You are most certainly NOT an irresponsible pet owner!

I was at that point when I had Marina Mar. She was so sick. We did all kinds of tests. She was at the vet every other day for blood work. When they finally realized what it was, they told me that the last resort would be kitty chemo. I said absolutely not. I loved her with all my heart and could not put her through daily blood draws and her being even more sick than she already was. She was only 3 1/2.

Oh and for the record, I would NEVER say that to someone. That's just plain cruel.

You do what YOU feel is right. No one here can fault you for thinking about what's in your pets best interest.

[Catty1]

I have Kirsten's PayPal addy - please PM me if you can help.

http://petoftheday.com/talk/showthre...71#post1871471

On July 28/07, one USD = $1.369

[Kirsten]

Catty1, thank you so much for doing this for Luna!!

moosmom: I'm very sorry to hear about your poor little Marina Mar. She was still so young!! But I think it was the right decision not to do the chemo.

Gary, please stop blaming yourself for what happened to your Pouncer! I'm sure you did what you could at that point. We all need to make our experiences, also with cats. I know I made a lot mistakes with Aysche, my first cat. No one ever realized how sick she actually was. Little was known about FIP in the early 80s, but we all live and learn... Here's her story if you are interested...

Kirsten

[Kirsten]

Oh, forgot to say...

Medusa, I didn't mean to justify, it's just that I'm so frustrated about the entire situation that once I start speaking about it, I cannot stop... I'm sorry for that. It's just hard to believe that it came this far, but it's going on and on and on... like today when I read that the prices for dairy products will rise by up to 50%. OMG!!

Kirsten

[Medusa]

There's absolutely no need to apologize. That was my point. This is one of the hazards of internet talking; sometimes it's difficult to get a point across.

It's only natural to be concerned about rising costs, etc., especially where the care of our furkids are concerned. We have to have a life, too. Of course, we want the best for our pets but we need to take care of ourselves, too. Otherwise, life becomes narrow and pinched and then we can become resentful. You're doing everything right where Luna is concerned, that's for sure. The way I see it, you're a responsible pet owner who wants only the best for Luna. How can anyone find fault w/that? No worries, Kirsten.

[Kirsten]

It's only natural to be concerned about rising costs, etc., especially where the care of our furkids are concerned.

It wasn't like this in earlier times that all my thoughts are circulating around my existence. It has just become so hard these days. Even without Luna and Lily, life wouldn't be a picnic. I never meant to sound as if I could live a life of luxury if they weren't here. Actually, they are the only luxury I have!

Kirsten

[jenluckenbach]

On July 28/07, one USD = $1.369

This had me more hopeful than it was..... I took this to meant MY $50 would actually be MORE for Kirsten, when in reality it is less.

50.00 USD = 36.6380 EUR

1 USD = 0.732760 EUR & 1 EUR = 1.36470 USD

I am not saying this matters, but I am posting in case someone else would be making the same mistake as I did.

[catmandu]

I Should Not Have Brought My Pouncer In The Mix. Her Lung Had Collapsed So There Was Little That Could Be Done.
I Was Just Negligent In Not Seeing That She Had Lost Weight And Her Paws Were Ice Cold. Its Funny How We Can Look At Our Cats Everyday And Not Really See Them.
We Are Praying The Luna Will Be All Right. Joseph Prays That They Can Make Tony Romas Today.

[Kirsten]

Gary, I'm very sorry about little Pouncer.

Jen, thanks a lot! It's very appreciated!

Kirsten

[lvpets2002]

Kirsten how is Luna doing?? I hope not too much discomfort.. So per $100.00 US is $136.90 Euro right.. Please reply so I will know what to send.. Now did I miss the How Much Do We Need?? Give Luna Many Huggss Kisses & Prayers from my furr purr clan..

Candace where is the PayPal Account??

[CathyBogart]

I had to make some sacrifices to get Jasper cared for this month, and thinking about it I know that he is more than worth it. I would sell everything I own for him without batting an eye.