ok I am a bit tipsy and wont apologise

**4 Dog Mother** · 05-10-2007, 08:27 AM

What terrible news! I am sorry for your loss of your brother. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

**Catty1** · 05-10-2007, 08:29 AM

Kym

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**Lori Jordan** · 05-10-2007, 08:32 AM

I am so sorry for your loss i too lost my brother to a snomobile accident.

**Queen of Poop** · 05-10-2007, 08:37 AM

Absolutely no need to apologize. No need at all. You have my deepest sympathy. I know how difficult this is. I lost my brother and my sister the same year 3 months apart. Allow yourself the time to grieve. But as mentioned before, a candle at the wedding would be beneficial to all involved. Please take care. If I can be of any help at all please let me know.

**Randi** · 05-10-2007, 08:52 AM

I'm so sorry to hear you lost your brother.

You don't have to apologize at all. I know what a shock it is.

My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

May your brother rest is peace!

**Taz_Zoee** · 05-10-2007, 09:16 AM

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your brother. You and your family are in my thoughts at this difficult time. Please, you have nothing to apologize for here.

**DrKym** · 05-10-2007, 10:07 AM

Thank you all, I am talking with Andrea his wife as to what we are to do with him. He wanted cremation,
The rest of the family wants a headstone at least even if the ashes aren't buried.

**smokey the elder** · 05-10-2007, 10:08 AM

I'm so sorry about your brother.

**k9krazee** · 05-10-2007, 10:12 AM

Oh Kym, I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family will be in my thoughts. (((((hugs))))

**K9soul** · 05-10-2007, 10:27 AM

My very deepest sympathies to you and your family. Please do not feel you should apologize, or have the thread deleted. We are all here for you, to offer love and condolences. I cannot imagine the incredible shock this has to be for you and your family

I will hold you, your brother and your family in my prayers.

**Maya & Inka's mommy** · 05-10-2007, 10:51 AM

OMG, I am lost at words...

. What a terrible thing to happen.... .
Hugs to all the family......

**cassiesmom** · 05-10-2007, 10:57 AM

Dr. G., my thoughts and prayers to you. I think a headstone gives family a place to go and remember their loved one. I have a friend who died in his early 30s from complications of undiagnosed diabetes, and although he was cremated, we had a forsythia bush planted in the park as a remembrance. It is a nice place to go and think happy memories, especially this time of year when it's blooming. If you need anything, please say the word.

**Blue_Frog** · 05-10-2007, 11:04 AM

<<< hugs >>> I'm so sorry Kym ... my thoughts are with you and your family

**gini** · 05-10-2007, 11:07 AM

I cannot even imagine the shock and pain that you are feeling. Please do not apologize.

I am so sorry for your huge loss.

**Catty1** · 05-10-2007, 11:10 AM

Kym, as you know, I lost my sister last year. It was somewhat expected, so I can understand that the shock of something this sudden is like a cavern swallowing you up.

I believe that everyone in your family - from what I know of you and your wonderful spirit and heart - would know that they were loved by their family members.

That your brother knew this is a wonder, and I hope it brings you some peace.

I hope that the wedding has a beauty about it, as a positive thing in life.

HUGS again to you.