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    I desperately need advice

    I have a 2 year miniature toy poodle. She's in heat.

    I've wanted to have her spayed for a year, but I am TERRIFIED something will happen to her during the surgery and she'll die.

    Everything I've read says it's healthier to have them spayed. I want to do this, but I am scared. I can't find any info online about how safe the surgery is.

    Do dogs die very often during this surgery?

    She is my baby. She sleeps with me every night and follows me all over the house during the day. When I go to town---she goes with me. She acts just like a human baby.

    Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

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    Your dog has a better chance of dying from disease related to not spaying her, than to die while in surgery. It is a very quick operation, maybe a half hour or so, and not very risky. I highly recommend that if you are worried about her, to make sure they do pre anesthetic bloodwork and have an IV Catheter put in. An IV Catheter is like a portal directly into her vein, so if anything goes wrong they can quickly administer the drugs needed. Out of probably about 150 spays and neuters I've seen, I have seen one die, and it was a cat with low blood pressure. I've never even seen any real problems out of all those either. The only problem I've ever seen was when an unspayed dog got pyometra, which is an infection in the uterus and the uterus filled with pus, and they had to do an emergency spay to save the dog.

    Please spay your dog. I had to help put down a dog with mammary cancer the other day, which she probably wouldn't have gotten if the lady had spayed the dog. When asked if the owner had ever been talked to about spaying, she said yes, but I just never "got around to it".

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    Your little angel will be just fine. Have no worries! The surgeons know what they're doing. They've done it before.

    Let us all here at PT know her surgery date if you book her for a spaying, and we'll send all our thoughts and prayers your way!

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    Quote Originally Posted by areias
    Your dog has a better chance of dying from disease related to not spaying her, than to die while in surgery. It is a very quick operation, maybe a half hour or so, and not very risky. I highly recommend that if you are worried about her, to make sure they do pre anesthetic bloodwork and have an IV Catheter put in. An IV Catheter is like a portal directly into her vein, so if anything goes wrong they can quickly administer the drugs needed. Out of probably about 150 spays and neuters I've seen, I have seen one die, and it was a cat with low blood pressure. I've never even seen any real problems out of all those either. The only problem I've ever seen was when an unspayed dog got pyometra, which is an infection in the uterus and the uterus filled with pus, and they had to do an emergency spay to save the dog.

    Please spay your dog. I had to help put down a dog with mammary cancer the other day, which she probably wouldn't have gotten if the lady had spayed the dog. When asked if the owner had ever been talked to about spaying, she said yes, but I just never "got around to it".
    Thanks, areias. I copied and saved the sentence about the 'pre anesthetic bloodwork' and 'IV Catheter'. I'll make sure to talk to the vet about these things.

    Geez! They can even get cancer from not being spayed? I DID NOT know this. I've also never heard of pyometra. I have a feeling I'm going to learn a lot from this board.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BC_MoM
    Your little angel will be just fine. Have no worries! The surgeons know what they're doing. They've done it before.

    Let us all here at PT know her surgery date if you book her for a spaying, and we'll send all our thoughts and prayers your way!
    Thank you for the kind words.

    One of my dogs died last year during surgery because the vet made a mistake.

    He's a wonderful, caring man and an excellent vet. I know bad things happen sometimes during surgery, but I can't keep from worrying.

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    Please do get your baby spayed! She will be fine and much better for it!

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    Please get your dog spayed. It is not that risky of a surgery. I recently lost my beloved Mandy (who you see in my avatar) to pyometra. We didn't get her spayed due to a birth defect in her heart and getting her spayed 'was' a risk. Her life expectancy was only 2 to 3 years and she had just passed her 5th birthday. Still, had she not got pyometra she may have lived longer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by mypoodle
    Thank you for the kind words.

    One of my dogs died last year during surgery because the vet made a mistake.

    He's a wonderful, caring man and an excellent vet. I know bad things happen sometimes during surgery, but I can't keep from worrying.
    I'm so sorry. Accidents do happen, but the chances are so low I rarely worry. Just make sure you get the spaying done a reputable place. Don't forget a SANITARY place, as well.

    When we adopted Molly, she hadn't been spayed yet so we had to sign a spaying contract at the Humane Society. At the HS, they have a subsidized spay and neuter program, it's only $20 to spay or neuter.

    At that wage, what kind of vet will you get? Kinds that go too quickly, they do so many spaying/neuterings a day that they get careless.

    Molly had an infection 4 months after her spaying. She couldn't pee. She had blood and bacteria in her pee; high levels. A few months later, she started lactating (producing milk) and acting like she was pregnant. The vet thinks she wasn't completely spayed.

    I wish we had phoned the HS and got them to pay the bills, but I think it's too late now.

    That's a low-risk worst case scenario, but it was treatable. Incomplete spays are extremely rare.


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    Thank you all very much for the info. You've helped me make the decision to have my little girl spayed. I'll make an appointment for her as soon as she's no longer in heat.

    Please forgive me, but I have just one more question about it:

    When I spoke with the vet a few months ago about getting it done, she said my baby would have to spend the night. I said, 'Oh. Will someone be there with her all night?' She said, 'No, but I'll come in and check on her.'

    We've never been away from each other for more than 3 hours. I wouldn't mind her spending the night at the vets if someone was going to be there with her all night. In fact, I would prefer it---just in case something happened. But, if she's going to be left alone ALL NIGHT, she should come home so that I can keep a close watch on her.

    Is it common practice to keep dogs overnight that have just had surgery , without anyone to monitor them? Or do some vets let them come home the same day?

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    Quote Originally Posted by BC_MoM
    I'm so sorry. Accidents do happen, but the chances are so low I rarely worry. Just make sure you get the spaying done a reputable place. Don't forget a SANITARY place, as well.

    When we adopted Molly, she hadn't been spayed yet so we had to sign a spaying contract at the Humane Society. At the HS, they have a subsidized spay and neuter program, it's only $20 to spay or neuter.

    At that wage, what kind of vet will you get? Kinds that go too quickly, they do so many spaying/neuterings a day that they get careless.

    Molly had an infection 4 months after her spaying. She couldn't pee. She had blood and bacteria in her pee; high levels. A few months later, she started lactating (producing milk) and acting like she was pregnant. The vet thinks she wasn't completely spayed.

    I wish we had phoned the HS and got them to pay the bills, but I think it's too late now.

    That's a low-risk worst case scenario, but it was treatable. Incomplete spays are extremely rare.
    Thank heavens Molly recovered!

    My sister told me about a similar spay/neuter program. I was kind of uncertain of them for the very reasons you mentioned.

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    BC_Mom is right about being concerned about the low-cost spay/neuter vets, at least in my opinion. At the time, I thought that since this was the operation they specialized in, they had a licensed vet performing the surgery, and they were offering it at a discount, what could go wrong?

    We couldn't afford the 'real' vet's price for spaying our 2 dogs, and one ended up having an allergic reaction to the dissolving stitches, and it ended up costing the same, since she was then on prednisone (a steroid) for two weeks and an antibiotic to prevent secondary infection in that area. She had to go have another surgery (unrelated) and I mentioned the allergy to that vet (in case he would be using similar stitches), and he said that the cheap material used in the stitches at the low-cost clinics in our area were much more prone to cause that kind of reaction. I never had a problem with taking my male animals to the less expensive places, but that operation's less complex anyway, and they don't usually get stitched up. For a female spay, I will go to the 'real' vet from now on! Lesson learned!

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    a poodle mommy too!

    hi i have a poode also but she has been fixed. i have had that awful fear of loosing her also cause shes pretty much my best friend. you hear so many things good and bad. ive always been told that poodles get breast cancer and that getting them fixed always cuts down the risk. and if theres any way i can keep my girl around longer i will and did. you really have to have alot of faith to me in your vet. your angel will be fine.

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    Quote Originally Posted by mypoodle

    Please forgive me, but I have just one more question about it:

    When I spoke with the vet a few months ago about getting it done, she said my baby would have to spend the night. I said, 'Oh. Will someone be there with her all night?' She said, 'No, but I'll come in and check on her.'

    We've never been away from each other for more than 3 hours. I wouldn't mind her spending the night at the vets if someone was going to be there with her all night. In fact, I would prefer it---just in case something happened. But, if she's going to be left alone ALL NIGHT, she should come home so that I can keep a close watch on her.

    Is it common practice to keep dogs overnight that have just had surgery , without anyone to monitor them? Or do some vets let them come home the same day?

    I believe many Vets keep them overnight.Typically spayed in the morning
    hours or early afternoon then put in a cage & monitored to see how they
    are doing.If there was a problem, they would never be left alone & I'm sure
    you would get a call if there was an emergency situation. The pup might
    actually rest better at the Vets office than at home.
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    As usual - this is way harder on the mommies than it is on our fur-babies!

    Yes, it's a VERY long night...but you can get some special treats for the big welcome home party!
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    Quote Originally Posted by mypoodle
    Thank you for the kind words.

    One of my dogs died last year during surgery because the vet made a mistake.

    He's a wonderful, caring man and an excellent vet. I know bad things happen sometimes during surgery, but I can't keep from worrying.
    No wonder you're extra scared then. I would be, too. I know how special our dogs/pets can be to us. She should be fine and she'll be home in no time. Are they even using stitches now? Duke was neutered in TX in 1994 and they even used a lazer then. I thought that was really cool.

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