What do you think...Not pet related

[happylabs]

The woman that my husband left me for back in 2001 is writing a manuscript on how "she and Dan got back together again". I was married to him at the time they met back up again at a college reunion that he did not invite me to go to with him. They had been secretly seeing each other for several months until I accidentally found out about the affair. He wanted to continue being married to me and carry on with her on the side. I told him to make a choice, her or me. He chose her so I told him to leave.

I am completely over the break up and divorce and am very happy, but don't you think she has a lot of nerve to write a book about it?!? What a slap in the face to my two kids who are now 19 and 22.

[Pinot's Mom]

WOW - that's beyond chutzpah! Hey, if she tells the truth, you can sue her for alienation of affection (I think that's what it's called)! Seriously though, that is BEYOND bad taste. No class (but that was obvious long ago, huh?).

[pomtzu]

WOW - that's beyond chutzpah! Hey, if she tells the truth, you can sue her for alienation of affection (I think that's what it's called)! Seriously though, that is BEYOND bad taste. No class (but that was obvious long ago, huh?).

Does she plan on publishing it? Unless she classifies it as "fiction", then she had better carefully choose her words and not have anything unsavory/untruthful to say in reference to you or the kids. You could make it unpleasant for her if she does - but then she would have what's coming to her in that case.

Tacky - tacky - tacky

[moosmom]

I'd talk to your lawyer about it. I'm so sorry she's doing this and think that if she does finish the manuscript, and if it's TRUE, she is the one that going to look like a skank. I just feel bad for you and your children. That's why I suggested talking to your lawyer.

You're in my prayers, honey.

[Anikaca77]

I can only offer my prays on this one. I'm in a tough situation about whether to stay or go at the moment myself so I can't really offer advice but my prays are with you.

Melissa

[Taz_Zoee]

I'm with Donna on this one. Why in the world would someone write a book about how they stole someone's husband?? And like Donna said, if she does tell the truth she is going to look like the bad guy. That's why I would have to believe it will not be the truth, but something to make her look great instead.

Definitely talk to a lawyer or something to find out what grounds you have in this situation.