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[heidiv]

We had recently lost our snowshoe Chloe from FIP so my husband and I decided to start looking and found a bluepoint snowshoe Siamese that I think?? We are going to name Nikki...

Only problem is she is TERRIFIED of humans...She has had very little exposure to humans so this whole riding in a car for 3 hours then getting put into a strange house with no one you know is terrifying this little girl...Almost to the point of holding her urine all day till I put her in the little box...

I really need help from all you rescue guru's on how to get this little beauty out of her shell....She is darling and I really think she will make a wonderful kitty with a little time??? This is something we signed up for and are more than willing to work with her... I just need a little advice??? I started to hand feed her the really smelly fishy food from the can tonight and she would eat it gently right from my hand....So she isn't mean by any means....We are both already head over heels in love with her we just don't want her suffering cause she is terrified by us??? Any ideas on how to work her out of her beautiful shell???

Thanks again you guys are life savers....

[Karen]

Time and patience, time and patience. Don't try to rush her. Just, as much as you can, sit in the room she's in, and let her approach you. As tempting as it is to want to fuss over her, you can't right now, let her feel comfortable, and get used to her new surroundings.

You will, after all, be the bringer of all good things, and let her see you bringing food, etc. Time and patience - it will all be rewarded in time.

[Medusa]

Aw, she'll come around. Just let her have the run of the house for a while to get accustomed to her new surroundings. She'll sniff out everything and learn where things are and before you know it, she'll be right at home. I'm sure that the 3 hour car ride had a lot to do w/her nervousness. She'll learn your voices and their tones, too, and one day she'll come when you call her, just you wait and see. Congrats on your new furchild. Can't wait to see pix.

[moosmom]

What Karen said is right. Time and patience are the key. This little girl sounds like she might be semi-feral, or even feral.

How old is she? Put her in a quiet room with a litterbox, food and water along with a night light and possibly a radio with classical music playing. Go in with treats (she'll most likely hide) and sit on the floor, gently tossing them to her from where you are. You need to get down to her level. Cats feel threatened (especially ferals or semi-feral) when they come upon a human standing up. When you are down on their level, it's less threatening. Slowing blink at the kitty, which will let her know that you aren't a threat. Keep tossing the treats, avoiding any sudden movements. If she comes out while you're there, just allow her to come out on her own terms, gently talking to her.

I'm so glad you're taking this precious baby in. I'm sure there are other guru's here that can add some wonderful, helpful advice.

Good luck!!

[columbine]

When I first adopted Smudge (after he'd lived 9 years in another house), there were days I didn't see him at all. I don't think he was scared, just sad, or maybe shellshocked. But he ate his food and used his litterbox, and in his own time he came out from wherever he'd been hiding, and now I always have to watch where I walk because he's often sprawled in the middle of the floor or trotting up to get pets & skritchies.

Cats don't like upheaval. Once she gets used to her new home, she'll be fine!

Love, Columbine

[Laura's Babies]

Put her in a quiet room with a litterbox, food and water along with a night light and possibly a radio with classical music playing. .

That is exactly what I was going to suggest, just have it playing softly. That is what I did with the feral we had trapped. I sat in the room with them a lot, they were caged. I would sit in there for hours talking to them, softly, sometimes singing to them.

I had a neighbor that use to come over and help me and several times a day, we would take them out of the cage in a pillow case (this was early into it). This was just to get them use to being handled. In the beginning of this stage, we would leave them closed into the pillow case and worked into having their heads out but the PC tightly around everything else. These were feral without having any humans contact before this. We would just sit quietly and hold them, pet them and talk to them in the pillow case.

Once they got use to me, I would bring the cage in the living room for short times in the beginning and worked up to longer periods of time. I have other cats so I let them get use to each other and I would sit by their cage where they could see me and hold, pet, talk to my other ones and then I would play with mine. They eventually wanted to participate in playing too. Once use to seeing my interaction with my other cats and more and more use to all this newness.. I would put a lease on them and let them out to participate in playing (one at a time), never letting them wander far from the cage..

It is a slow process and you do have to go at their pace but in the end, the pay off is wonderful! Good luck with your new baby and I can't wait to see pictures!

[catmandu]

Handsome John Hancock , Miquelito My Little Orange Lion, Pouncierge La Purrfecta , And My Precious the Purrfect were all absolutley terrified of me when they first moved in!!

But when love , patience and peace and quiet Your Nikki will sense that you love her, and there will come a Wonderful Moment when Nikki will come forwrd to be Your Special Friend!!

Those are the moments You will treasure Furr-Ever!!

[jenluckenbach]

I would set her up in a room of her own. First, it is less overwhelming than an whole house. Also, you will KNOW where she is!! And you can monitor her eating.

Next, just spend quiet time with her. I find sitting on the floor, sometimes even laying on the floor, is the least threatening to the cat.

Feeding her by hand is a great way to gain her trust.

Simply doing something in her room, without trying to approach her, helps her by allowing her to watch and listen to you.

Don't be afraid of set backs, they will happen. I find that the "recovery"time after each "scary incident" will lessen, over time.

Just LOVE her, she will, in time, love you back.