Sparky's Saga/Update #74

[pomtzu]

My normally bouncy boy seems to be "down in the dumps" and I don't know what to do for him. He's not sick - appetite is fine and he's always first in line for cookies - but he's just not himself.

He's always been a Mamma's Boy and doesn't like it when I leave, and probably has seperation anxiety to some degree, but when I return, he gives me attitude for a while, and then all is forgiven and the old Sparky is back.

Earlier this month I was on vacation for 12 days, but that didn't make too drastic a change in his life, since this is a 3 generation household as I live with my son, DIL, and grandson, so he had everyone here with him - just not me. When I got home, I noticed he seemed sad, but I figured it was the attitude again and he would get over it in a few days. It hasn't happened. He isn't clingy toward me (unless there is a thunder storm), and seems to keep more to himself than he ever did. However, when I go out for anything, he seems to stress.

Today I had some errands to run and was gone for less than 2 hours, and my son said after I left, that Sparky laid by the living room window (I have a bow window from ceiling to floor) and watched for me to come back. I just can't figure what's going on with him.

I've been gone plenty of times before - vacations - hospital stays - and he's always been fine after giving me a little attitude about me leaving him. This time, I just don't get what's going on with him.

He and Myndi go to the vet on Monday for their annual check up and shots, and I'm going to ask her about it.

Does anyone have any ideas? It makes me sad to see him sad!

[Asiel]

Pomtzu- Do you think maybe if there were other dogs where you were that you brought back the scent on some of your clothes and it made Sparky anxious about another dog replacing him . Sounds weird that he would act like this after you've been back home for so long now, especially since he was at home with the rest of the family as you say. Maybe they get a bit more anxious as they age and it takes them longer to get over it. Hope he isn't coming down with something. Maybe try giving him extra attention for a few days to see what he does...poor thing, hope he gets back to normal soon.

[pomtzu]

Pomtzu- Do you think maybe if there were other dogs where you were that you brought back the scent on some of your clothes and it made Sparky anxious about another dog replacing him

That's a thought - I was at my brother's place for 12 days - and he has 2 dogs and 2 cats. But I was there last Fall too, and didn't get this kind of reaction from Sparky when I came home that time.

Another thought I had, was maybe he was traumatized by a thunder storm when he and Myndi were alone during the day when my son and DIL were at work. They said that there were a couple of afternoon storms before they got home from work. The past couple of years, Sparky has developed a fear of them, and wants to be in someone's lap when it's storming. We had a bad storm late last night, and he was under the comforter and snuggled up against me until it was over. Maybe it terrified him that there was no one to "protect" him during those afternoon storms.

I don't know! I'm grasping at straws at this point!

[Freedom]

Gosh, don't you just wish they could TALK?!!

Sparky, what's up, pup? Mum's worried about cha! Hmm, maybe that is exactly what he wants!

Hope he comes around soon.

[Medusa]

I don't usually visit the dog side but I saw Sparky's name and I perked up. I don't have any thoughts on this other than to say that Sparky will be in my prayers, Ellie. Keep us posted.

[Asiel]

The thunderstorm idea might be your answer. If he was alone and is reacting to them in a more frantic way then mybe he fears that while you're away he'll be left alone during another one. Let us know how he does this week.......