What would you say???

[jennielynn1970]

Ok, so I'm sitting in my house, and I have my front windows open (I live in a row home, so it's close quarters), and the theatre interns next door are walking up their steps and I hear "... neighbor, god, she's got like 11 million cats! Something doing with rescuing them?" and laughing.

First of all, I do NOT have 11 million cats. I don't even have 11 right now!! Secondly, who the heck do they think they are making comments about me when they just moved in 2 weeks ago and are so snotty, they don't even say hi?! I'll say hello, my neighbors say hello to them, and they just scurry into the house and mumble what I think may be a hello.

I'm not some scary, white trash person living in the barrio for god's sake! I'm a school teacher!! I have a nice house, a nice front porch with hanging flower baskets, a porch swing, and a small bowl of dry food for the stray kitty I've been feeding. There's also a carrier on the other end of my porch you can hardly see that is there for shelter for him.

These girls will be here, maybe until December, or if I'm luck, haha... until May of 2008. All depends on the theatre they intern with.

I'm just really offended and annoyed that some girls, they're younger than I am anyway, are making these comments, and they have no idea who I am.

Do I say something? Do I write them a note/letter?? Do I say nothing at all, but yet curse at them under my breath?!

I just really annoyed that they would so snide, and rude, and not even think about the fact that first, my windows are open and they're walking in front of the houses, and 2ndly that they don't even know me or my cats (all 11 million of them!).

[kt_luvs_kitties]

Jenn, I would ignore the snots. They sound snooty anyways, so no love lost. Keep your mind on helping cats, not some little brats who talk crap, but dont care about anyone but themselves.

Give um nasty looks, and ignore them

[Karen]

I'd write them a brief, but not unkind note, introducing yourself, and saying

"No, I don't have 11 million cats, I don't even have 11! But the other coment I overheard was right. Besides my full-time job as a school teacher, I do volunteer work witha cat rescue organization. As a matter of fact, I even have one cat I am fostering who was flown here from Bahrain. I know you're new to the neighborhood, if you are away from home and cats that you miss, you are welcome to visit with mine some time. But don't ask to pat the Bahrainian foster - she has teeth and knows how to use them. However, if you need a ferocious beastie for one of your theatre productions, Ally'd fit the bill!"

That way, they both know the truth, and know that they were overheard, and can choose to either be friendly, or at least keep their mouths shut next time.

[Fuzzybuns]

Me? I would probably find every piece of literature I could on fostering and leave them on their front stoop.
Oh, or that poem thing on being a foster "purrson" and why it's so needed.

Maybe invite them in for some lemonade and to meet their fuzzy neighbors. While introducing, say something like "Well, I may not have 11 million but I do what I can. Too bad there aren't more willing souls to share the love."

[G535]

Life's too short to be wasted worrying about what other people say or think, ignore them!

[Donnaj4962]

I agree with what Karen suggested! We have to remember that not everyone loves kitties as we all do! (I know, hard to believe, isn't it..... they have no idea what they are missinf!)

Sounds to me like they need a lesson on neighborly etiquette, and the note may be the best way to help them.

I wouldn't worry too much about them though.... one of my favorite sayings...."What goes around comes around."

[AbbyMom]

Life's too short to be wasted worrying about what other people say or think, ignore them!

What she said. Certainly they aren't the first that have said something snotty about your cats, just the first you've overheard. Many people say mean things all the time. Ignore them all and you'll be happier.

[kuhio98]

Life's too short to be wasted worrying about what other people say or think, ignore them!

Amen! Pick your battles. This isn't one worth going to war over. Just get busy living your life and not worrying about them. People often say unkind, unthinking remarks. You can lead by example by just doing what you do. Don't be surprised if they let you know about a kitty that needs help one of these days.

[Freedom]

Maybe invite them in for some lemonade and to meet their fuzzy neighbors. While introducing, say something like "Well, I may not have 11 million but I do what I can. Too bad there aren't more willing souls to share the love."

I like this idea. Make a friendly overture. You DO have to live next door to them for a bit. They sound shy and nervous being where they are. Once they are in, then just by seeing you and the cats they are getting an education!

[pitc9]

Ohh... I would be upset too.
I would have to let them know that I hear what they said!
Just think about how bad they'll feel once they know you heard what they said!
(I'm rotten... I know! )

Maybe when you see them ouside (or watch their door and wait for them to come out ) You could say "I couldn't help but overhear your conversation about me the other day, and I just wanted to clear a few things up...then what Karen said... I don't have 11 million cats and I foster...etc."