One More Time I Swear**Vent**

[mina'smomma]

Maybe I'm being hormonal or something but I swear if one more person comments on how big I'm getting with the baby I'm going to scream. I'm almost four months along and so far the only thing I hear is that I'm way too big for four months and I should diet to lose some of the weight. As ramanth can tell you guys and as you've seen in our pictures my hubby and I aren't small ppl. I mean I'm 6'0" tall and weigh 245 right now and my hubby is 6'7" and weighs in at 220. I've lost 20 lbs since I found out I was pregnant because I started eating a lot healthier and have been forcing my self to get some decent prenatal excerise in so I can help make delivery easier. Does anyone notice that nooooo they just think I'm so horrible for getting "fat" as it has been termed. I'm so tempted to tell them what they can do with their comments. The doc says I'm doing wonderful and he was so happy to see that the baby is doing well too.

Then to top it all off it seems like a lot of my friends who live close by have quit hanging around me because I'm pregnant. The only one who hasn't is the one I thought would. She is unable to have a baby and up until a couple of months ago we thought the same of me. She calls me almost every night and we have lunch together almost every day. Explain this to me. I thought my so-called friends would be happy for us. Something that wasn't suppose to ever happen again has been blessed to us and they just bailed.

Anyway thanks for listening to me vent. Sorry if I offended anyone. It just seems other than my r/t friend Karen who lives in the next town my PT friends are all I have left.

[Kfamr]

I'm so sorry your "friends" are doing this to you, Renae. If that's how they're going to act then you don't need them. They aren't worthy of your friendship.
I'm so glad your one friend is there for you, though. That's a TRUE friend.


{{HUGS}}

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Be proud of your bump - there's a whole new PTer in there!!! As for tactless people and fairweather friends - who needs them eh?

[Maya & Inka's mommy]

Those so-called friends aren't worth to be your friend....! Don't worry, you will find better ones, and of course you have all of us on PT
I hate people who think that pregnant women are ugly ; in my opinion there is nothing more beautiful than an expectant mom!!

Hey Renae I am so happy to find out you are pregnant! Your hubby must be so proud too . When are you due?

[mina'smomma]

Those so-called friends aren't worth to be your friend....! Don't worry, you will find better ones, and of course you have all of us on PT
I hate people who think that pregnant women are ugly ; in my opinion there is nothing more beautiful than an expectant mom!!

Hey Renae I am so happy to find out you are pregnant! Your hubby must be so proud too . When are you due?

Hey Lut,

I'm due November 27, but we think it will take after it's mommy and be more towards the begining of November

[cyber-sibes]

Congratulations, momma! (and papa!) Hey, relax and enjoy the ride - I got a real kick out of the many changes my body went through while I was pregnant. You won't believe all the changes! Thankfully, it's only for a few months, I was sooo ready to not be pregnant anymore after 9 months
Maybe some of your friends don't know what to say, or are jealous -- they certainly sound self-absorbed. If you feel good and your doctor's happy with your progress, that's all that counts. Keep sending that little one happy vibes, you're the most important person in his/her life!

[My Peanuts]

The doc says I'm doing wonderful and he was so happy to see that the baby is doing well too.

That is all that matters and I think you should tell everyone else where to go. Then later blame your reaction on hormones!

[Catty1]

To use an old line I used to trot out: "I'd rather have the fat on my body than in my head!"

[jackie]

Shake it off!

As long as you keep moving and eating healthy it shouldn't matter what anyone has to say.

I like the " rather have the fat on my body then in my head" comment!