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    Something I wanted to say

    I was prompted to post this by responses from the thread about Prince Charles suggesting to ban McDonalds.

    To start off, I don't mind if no-one replies to this thread. I don't entirely mind if people don't exactly understand what I'm trying to get at. I would just like it to be read and taken on board, and not to be taken offensively, because it most definitely is not intended to be so.

    I love the fact that this board is primarily an American site. I love the fact that I can 'meet' so many wonderful people from the otherside of the Atlantic and consider myself priveliged to have such an insight into a culture different to my own. Believe me, I find it so much more fascinating to be here being around others from a clearly great and wonderful country, and revel in the interest that many lovely people here take in mine.

    Ever since I joined PT, occasionally I've been knocked back by a few attitudes and views expressed in, unbeknownst to me at the time, complete innocence and as a passing comment. At first this greatly troubled me and I often thought to myself, 'you can't say that!' Thankfully being a newbie at the time I held my tongue, and in doing so allowed myself more time to get to grips with the fact that what is generally acceptable for me to say is not the same for the majority of others. Now I find it much easier to cope with certain comments as I just put them down to cultural differences.

    However, and especially in recent times, I've noticed that not just one but on many political-orientated threads, it seems that no other political views exist apart from that of America's. I wish I could find a way of not putting that quite so bluntly, as I am not one to stereotype by any means, and I must stress that the majority of members here are not culprits of this in the slightest. Now, I cannot expect everyone here to understand the voice of a 15-year-old Brit speaking out against something which may seem perfectly acceptable, but when dismissive comments are made to other countries' morals, ethical and political views, it HURTS. Perhaps they do not intend to do so, but they bite deep.

    I have to say once again that I am not someone offended by slight inclinations and hints, but I am seeing it clearly and openly. I do not want it to come across like I am a spoiled brat who wants to be treated extra special purely because I am in a 'minority', quite the opposite. I just made this thread to express how I personally feel about all of this, and perhaps to ask for a little more consideration and sensitivity before smothering not just the UK, but the world with your views. By all means, post what your country believes in and stands for, I love reading about what you have to say. Just please do not expect me to be submissive to them, and allow me the chance to question them in a polite and intellectual manner.

    I am proud for what my country stands for and has achieved in its history. I am overly proud that I can come here and find friendship and compassion from people from all over the world who will always be there for me no matter what. I thank you for getting to the bottom of this overly-long post and giving up the time of day to take it in. YOU are what makes PT a most magical place to be.

    Thank you.

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    It's interesting that you brought this up. I have seen some comments like that lately, including a 'thank goodness I don't live there' mentality about America. It's kind of had be disturbed as well. I can't imagine making comments like that about any country, and if I have ever come close, it was most likely a joke. Not everyone understands my sense of humor though (as a matter of fact, I have been told I have a 'British' sense of humor ). I think it's unfortunate that a few members have made these kinds of comments and hurt the feelings of others. And if I have ever been one of them, again I apologize

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    Hmmm... I think I get what you're saying. interesting that you brought it up.

    I never post about politics because I don't know anything about ANY countries politics. (I know who the prime minister of Canad is and who the president of USA is... that's about it. I knew the gouveneur General too at one time... lol )

    I have to add I loved meeting you Zara!
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    I'd like to bump this. A very good thred, well written and with good meaning behind it. It should be seen by more than 34 people, IMO.
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    I guess I don't know what you mean exactly. You said,

    " However, and especially in recent times, I've noticed that not just one but on many political-orientated threads, it seems that no other political views exist apart from that of America's"

    Believe me there is no such thing as" one American belief". Our beliefs
    about politics or anything else, is very different from each other. If you are
    talking about some American political situation, of course you will hear more
    American thoughts & beliefs. Is this what you mean?
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    Quote Originally Posted by lizbud
    I guess I don't know what you mean exactly. You said,

    " However, and especially in recent times, I've noticed that not just one but on many political-orientated threads, it seems that no other political views exist apart from that of America's"
    Liz...I believe she means things such as:
    Because you taxpayers were stupid enought to vote for "free" health care.
    An ad hominem and rude response made by one of our fellow Americans to someone from another country.

    It is fair to say that calling people "stupid" because they voted for something with which you disagree...is..what would be the right word?

    Unfortunately there are provincial and uncultured people in every society. The US has so many people and this site so many from the US....it just stands out more!

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    I know where you are coming from Miss Z and I must say it's been a long time since I've read anything so well put.Thanks for a great post.

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    I agree - this is a well written and well thought out post Miss Z. You have clearly stated your feelings in a mature and sensitive manner. We all have opinions and those opinions will differ from time to time. Your clarification is a good example of how mature discussions should be handled - respectfully.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Edwina's Secretary
    Liz...I believe she means things such as:

    An ad hominem and rude response made by one of our fellow Americans to someone from another country.

    It is fair to say that calling people "stupid" because they voted for something with which you disagree...is..what would be the right word?

    Unfortunately there are provincial and uncultured people in every society. The US has so many people and this site so many from the US....it just stands out more!

    I see. I guess I didn't read the thread, or more likely, mentally tuned
    out the rude comments. Kind of like my own mental "ignore" option.
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    Quote Originally Posted by lizbud
    Kind of like my own mental "ignore" option.
    Where can I get one of those?
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    I have to say how glad I am that all the wonderful people who replied to this thread have kept it very civil and I am so happy that you have found it in your hearts to understand. I know to many here my views may seem obscure and thought I might receive a little backlash for it, but you are all so amazing when it comes to listening to others concerns. I would love to meet ALL of you in person one day!

    I now feel that I can read more political threads without cringing or biting my tongue, and I thank you all for that. I am quite happy to read about American views where American politics is involved, I know that in that type of thread my place is to sit out and learn more about different political views. I hope that from now on I will feel more free to post my own political views in certain topics.

    I was browsing a few threads and have actually found a few where American views have been discriminated against, and I just want you all to know that I feel just as wronged about that as I do for my own country.

    Zimbabwe 07/13


  12. Miss Z....I think maybe nationality is like family....I can complain and gripe about my mother or my sister...or whoever...all day long...but if someone else (including my husband ) says something critical of my family....thems fighting words!!!!!!

    Well done....

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