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    It's OVER

    Last night I had the police remove my husband from our house. Today he collected his stuff and has left. Tomorrow the locks will be changed. My bruises will heal and Sasha and I will move on. I have to give Sasha credit, she hid during the worst of it and spent all day today cuddled up with me, being a goofy girl at times and kissing away my tears with those special doggie kisses.

    Thanks for listening. I just had to get it out.
    Gayle - self proclaimed Queen of Poop
    Mommy to: Cali (14 year old kitten)
    (RB furbabies: Rascal RB 10/11/03 (ferret), Sami RB 24/02/04 (dog), Trouble RB 10/08/05 (ferret), Miko RB 20/01/06 (ferret) and Sebastian RB 12/12/06(ferret), Sasha RB 17/10/09 (border collie cross), Diego RB 04/12/21

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    I am so sorry you had to go through that, keep safe and big {{{{hugs}}}}
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    ((((hugs)))) You are so strong. I'm sorry you had to go through so much; I can't imagine how difficult all of this must have been for you. It's good that you have taken this step though, just keep yourself safe. PM me if you ever need to talk. More ((((hugs))))

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    Thank you for the kind words. Guess I need that right now. In case you don't recall, this is Sasha

    Gayle - self proclaimed Queen of Poop
    Mommy to: Cali (14 year old kitten)
    (RB furbabies: Rascal RB 10/11/03 (ferret), Sami RB 24/02/04 (dog), Trouble RB 10/08/05 (ferret), Miko RB 20/01/06 (ferret) and Sebastian RB 12/12/06(ferret), Sasha RB 17/10/09 (border collie cross), Diego RB 04/12/21

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    Congratulations on your courage, and you will be in our prayers.
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    *hugs* to you both. If you need anything, PT will be here for you!

    Thank you Wolf_Q!

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    (((PT GROUP HUGS))) Dogs are so amazing when you are upset. It took so much courage to do this, I will put you in my prayers. Sasha is such a beautiful girl.
    Thanks so much Ashley for the siggy!
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    GOOD FOR YOU!!! Life is to short to spend a moment of it in misery. You deserve a better life and I hope you know the best revenge is to show him you can do far better WITHOUT him!

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    I am so proud of you. It takes a very strong woman to finally say "ENOUGH". I know it is hard right now, but it will get better. No more being scared and now you can sleep knowing you will wake up to a better day. Good luck and I am very proud of you.

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    So many women stay in an abusive relationship because they don't have a good sense of their own self worth. Congratulations to you for finally taking a stand to take care of yourself.

    You are surrounded by love and support here at PT and many prayers will be coming your way.

    Stay strong!

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    I'm sorry you had to go through that, and what you did took a lot of courage. (((hugs)))

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    There is just no excuse for men beating up women or the other way around for that matter. Love doesn't beat up on you.

    I'm so glad you are out of that mess. Lots of prayers on the way for you and sweet Sasha!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by gini
    So many women stay in an abusive relationship because they don't have a good sense of their own self worth. Congratulations to you for finally taking a stand to take care of yourself.

    You are surrounded by love and support here at PT and many prayers will be coming your way.

    Stay strong!
    Couldn't have said it better myself.

    Congratulations!

    When my Mom left my father it was one of the happiest days of my life. Sure, i had already moved away from that Hell, but i was happy that she was finally going to have better.

    I suggest not only changing the locks, but moving ASAP and paying the extra little bit to become unlisted. Some abusers go to insane levels to get even.

    Good Luck

    *HUGS*

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    Thanks everyone for your kind words and support. I was mostly doing ok today, but now I'm feeling...really I don't know. Just sad. Very, very sad.
    Gayle - self proclaimed Queen of Poop
    Mommy to: Cali (14 year old kitten)
    (RB furbabies: Rascal RB 10/11/03 (ferret), Sami RB 24/02/04 (dog), Trouble RB 10/08/05 (ferret), Miko RB 20/01/06 (ferret) and Sebastian RB 12/12/06(ferret), Sasha RB 17/10/09 (border collie cross), Diego RB 04/12/21

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    Quote Originally Posted by Queen of Poop
    Thanks everyone for your kind words and support. I was mostly doing ok today, but now I'm feeling...really I don't know. Just sad. Very, very sad.
    It's okay to be sad, sweetie. Change is hard, even a change for the better. Sending you big hugs, and people from my church are praying for you, too. So if you feel hugs coming from way back East, that'd be us! The physical bruises will heal way quicker than the emotional ones, you can expect some up days and some down days, but remember that we love you, and this is a good thing. Tell Sasha to give you a kiss, it's from me!
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