I wish people who owned cats would keep them inside

[Vela]

This is the second cat I have run over in a few months, and another I had to deal with the death of in my yard. Then I get to feel like crap because THEIR cats are running in the road, and I either have to get in an accident to try to avoid it or end up running over the cat when it darts right out in front of my car. I'm sorry for any cat people on here with free roaming cats who don't agree, but it's not nice for the rest of us to have to kill the animal because it's not contained in a safe environment. Then I have to hear it and see it dying, because I had to run over it. I have to tell you that makes me feel horrible, but there is not a darn thing I can do about it. I have to cry and feel guilt over killing it.

The cat who died in my yard was killed by my dogs, they have a high prey drive, thus I don't have cats. They have never done anything before or since like it, but it was still horrifying for ME to have to see and deal with a dead cat in MY yard, because someone else didn't keep their pet contained. I have a high 6 foot privacy fence to keep my animals safe and contained, I just wish cat owners would keep theirs contained as well. I don't enjoy death of any animals, especially not because I ran over it or it came into my yard.

Ranting done. I just feel like crap because it's dead now and I feel it's the owner's fault that I have to feel this way and cry over it.

[Cataholic]

This is the second cat I have run over in a few months, and another I had to deal with the death of in my yard. Then I get to feel like crap because THEIR cats are running in the road, and I either have to get in an accident to try to avoid it or end up running over the cat when it darts right out in front of my car. I'm sorry for any cat people on here with free roaming cats who don't agree, but it's not nice for the rest of us to have to kill the animal because it's not contained in a safe environment. Then I have to hear it and see it dying, because I had to run over it. I have to tell you that makes me feel horrible, but there is not a darn thing I can do about it. I have to cry and feel guilt over killing it.

The cat who died in my yard was killed by my dogs, they have a high prey drive, thus I don't have cats. They have never done anything before or since like it, but it was still horrifying for ME to have to see and deal with a dead cat in MY yard, because someone else didn't keep their pet contained. I have a high 6 foot privacy fence to keep my animals safe and contained, I just wish cat owners would keep theirs contained as well. I don't enjoy death of any animals, especially not because I ran over it or it came into my yard.

Ranting done. I just feel like crap because it's dead now and I feel it's the owner's fault that I have to feel this way and cry over it.

It is the owner's fault. Not that that spares your sensitive heart a moments grief. I am sorry. RIP, sweet kitty, and special thoughts to you.

[borzoimom]

Cats that go out have half the life expectancy... Cars, dogs, other cats, getting lost etc or disease if not vaccinated..
I am sorry you went through this- its hard.. And you took the precautions- ..

[Lobodeb]

I've never had to run over an animal, thank God (knocks on wood). Have you hit the 2 cats in the same area? Maybe you could slow down because you know they're there? I'm not trying to blame you for hitting them, please understand. I know it's equally dangerous to avoid hitting them. But my reason for asking is that since you can't change other's irresponsible behavior, maybe you can adapt to it and a) not beat yourself up for their ignorance and b) not have to hit any more cats?

Just my thoughts.

ETA:

I'm sorry you're going through this.

[Kalei]

I completely agree with you Vela. I have never run over a cat thank god, but I hate seeing them running free and dying. My cats have always been indoors and they are so safe and sound. I wish that other cat owners could try and keep their cats off the roads too.

[Argranade]

Do the owners of this cat know what happened?

[Vela]

I have no idea, I don't know whose cat it was, it ran out of a hay field. I pulled over but there wasn't anyone around and it was already dead so there was no point in trying to take it to a vet. I have no way of knowing whose cat it is and I'm not going to go door to door carrying a dead cat, I can't pick it up, it's horrifying enough to see what happened to it!

[shais_mom]

Do the owners of this cat know what happened?

Chances are it might not even HAVE owners.
If it was feral or a stray.

I too don't like it when people let their cats out either. I let Kylie out on occasion with close supervision and she doesn't leave my yard, and if she does start to get brave and wander a very sharp "KYLIE" sends her running for the door. As do cars or trucks driving by, the rumble of a semi, the honk of a horn, as she's rather shy outside, which is fine by me.
Kloe is only outside when she makes an escape so its usually by accident. But she has no sense when she gets out there b/c she isn't as shy as Kylie, she is a lunatic outside.
I'm so sorry Vela that you have had to go thru this. It is NOT your fault it is the owner's fault that they don't know where their cat is. But I know that doesn't make you feel any better.
{{HUGS}}

[Vela]

The two cats I hit weren't anywhere near each other, very different areas. I was only going 35 mph, taking my kids to school. But even that is fast when they just dart out right under you. I tried to stop but I couldn't, it was all at once. I do drive slowly though, especially around here and the neighborhoods, we actually often have deer running through here and sometimes coyote and fox, ducks and geese, as we aren't that far from the mountains, few miles. I just feel so bad that I killed it.

[Lobodeb]

I just feel so bad that I killed it.

Sometimes, it's unavoidable, so try not to beat yourself up. And you certainly don't want to hurt yourself or your kids or another car by trying to miss the cat.

[borzoimom]

I've never had to run over an animal, thank God (knocks on wood). Have you hit the 2 cats in the same area? Maybe you could slow down because you know they're there? I'm not trying to blame you for hitting them, please understand. I know it's equally dangerous to avoid hitting them. But my reason for asking is that since you can't change other's irresponsible behavior, maybe you can adapt to it and a) not beat yourself up for their ignorance and b) not have to hit any more cats?

Just my thoughts.

ETA:

I'm sorry you're going through this.

One morning years ago, I went out to start my car, heard a scream, then silence. Someones cat had crawled inside my engine. I felt just awful... My younger brother one day almost totalled his car, and injured himself avoiding hitting someones car ( still see the marks in the tree he hit..)

[Lobodeb]

One morning years ago, I went out to start my car, heard a scream, then silence. Someones cat had crawled inside my engine. I felt just awful... My younger brother one day almost totalled his car, and injured himself avoiding hitting someones car ( still see the marks in the tree he hit..)

You know, I've heard of cats/animals doing this. I used to make it a point to honk my horn and wait a minute before I started my car to give the creature time to get out and I somehow got out of the habit. Maybe I should start again.

[borzoimom]

good point... I do up here on this mountain, close my vents to keep a snake from getting in the car.. ( shivers.......)