Too Upset ..

**sandragonfly** · 07-09-2006, 08:04 AM

friends, not sure where to post this here or in memorial where I feel my feelings should be dumped.

maybe this matters to somebody..

as some of you know miles just died recently. suddenly. without any warning or a tiny-bit symptom at all. all he was doing was getting better and was so proud of him. then all shattered down. again. worst this time. not only my stomach have twisted and cutted up, I feel like throwing up.

miles, after edges and avalanche, (who died too, suddenly - all are in memorial if you do a search) they died and we never know why! and never will.

all the three vets know miles had 'smaller kidneys' but not why or how. they all were so young. edges was only four months old (most, most close relationship I had with him), avalanche was a bit over a year old and miles, three & half years..

then I had a (horrible) dream this morning. of ocean's montage I made for him..

just as same as miles' montage I made for him few days ago.. I got too upset thinking it's gonna happen to ocean too. usually I believe in dreams, it sometimes predicts me right.

just now (I didn't get mails out yesterday), I found another bill for miles (from his last day at vet) to pay. in fact, I'm still paying for edges' death (two years ago, august 2004) and avalanche's too. last april. and I still am finishing up miles' surgery.

I absolutely hate this way of remembering them.

you knew, got nothing and you pay what price anyway??

I've been here on this site for almost four years now where most cats came and died in honors, I haven't seen anyone died without a reason.. why all mine? when will this stop and something I can do for, could save them?? it's just worse than knowing why and understanding the fate.

may they all boys rest in peace but I can't think or rest peacefully. forever.

thanks for reading.

**catmandu** · 07-09-2006, 08:14 AM

I know what you mean Gina.
BJ the Siamese got up one afternoon staggered around and as I was calling the Vet, he passed on.
And Tubby 2, was lying there apparently asleep.
If I hadnt of touched him, to give him Temptations, I dont know when I would have found out.
Gin you love your Cats so much, and I know its hard for you.
Hopefully your Vet will let you pay when you can.
I know my Vet would.
The best of luck to you and your Cats.

**AbbyMom** · 07-09-2006, 12:53 PM

Gina,
I have read your post three times and I'm still not sure what to say except that I'm so sorry about your cats and to send you cyber hugs.

As far as the bills go, yes, that seems a sad reminder. But you can also know that you did everything you could for your babies.

Your dreams sounds like a reflection of your worries, not a prediction of the future.

You seem to be going through a very, very rough period in your life. I pray that it gets better starting now, today, and that all your babies are safe and healthy. Shower them with love.

Pat

**KitCat** · 07-09-2006, 09:41 PM

I have been hoping for things to go better for you, because you have had more hard times than anyone should have to bear. Even though I have never met you, I share your tears. No one can answer why, but know that your friends here support you.

**sandragonfly** · 07-10-2006, 04:11 PM

thank you all three so very much. I try to feel a bit better, hardly can with mysterious miseries you have to live with. gary, I didn't realize how so much I loved them until they each took a big piece from my heart.

the piece gets bigger when you do not know why.

I think it was more frustrated where I took each of my little guys to more than one, two or three different emergency rooms for different opinion and they all couldn't find anything, anything wrong with them. especially after leukemia, FLV, colon bloodworks, x-rays, GI bariums and much more. all they asked me to bring the guys back home to keep them warm and before we knew, they just gave up their little heart the next few days.

now I think, what is this word, veterarian is really??

I don't see how this can stop bothering me.

**Maya & Inka's mommy** · 07-10-2006, 04:26 PM

((((((((HUGS for you, dear Gina!!!!!!!))))))))

**sandragonfly** · 09-25-2006, 01:22 AM

honestly ...

I don't want to give in anymore.

**Maya & Inka's mommy** · 09-25-2006, 02:40 AM

Awwwwww dear Gina, I wish I could reach out to give you a huge hug....

**Sonia59** · 09-25-2006, 11:01 AM

Me too! Gina, ((((((Hugs))))))

**CelticDreamer** · 09-25-2006, 12:08 PM

Awwwww big hugs to all whom have lost fur babys recently & through out the years so I guess everybody in here's getting a hug then because I know we have all lost & loved something special in the Animal Kingdom.... Having just lost my dog of 12 years a little over 2 week's ago I know & feel your pain... It's never easy letting go of something you love but one must try not dwell as much on what happened to their fur baby in the last hours & minues of life and think of all the joy they brought to your life and the happy times you shared together....

Goodbye

With heavy hearts and a tear in our eyes, after all these years, we must say goodbye. Please understand we've done all we could. If there was anything we could do, you know we would.

I'm sitting right here gently rubbing your ears, while I talk to you softly, trying to hold back the tears. The memories you gave us we'll never forget. Especially the ones of the day we all met.

One last hug and one last kiss. You have no idea how much you'll be missed. To look into your eyes this one last time... you tell me it's ok, you know it's your time.

Close your eyes now, and go to sleep. We'll pray to the Lord your soul he'll keep. Go in peace now, our good friend. We'll stay right here with you until the end.

Dream of that special day and time, when we'll meet at the Bridge and all will be fine. We'll run and play, side by side, with a soft warm feeling deep down inside.

Your memory will live on in each one of us. You'll always be number one to all of us. Have a safe journey through the night. I promise when you awake, you'll be in God's light.

So with heavy hearts, and tears in our eyes... just for now my friend, We say goodbye.

~Wishing you all Peace, Wuv, Blessings & a BIG Hug~

~Celtic Dreamer~

**sirrahbed** · 09-25-2006, 02:19 PM

I wish I could give you a big ((((HUG))))) too gina.

I went down to Kentucky this weekend and visited with our friend catcrazylady/Lisa. She has lost two babies (Scooter and her beloved Pete) to FIP in the past month and now it seems that a 3rd, Lucky, is dying as well. I cannot begin to know how awful it feels to suddenly lose a cat, let alone to suddenly lose 2-3

It does seem cruel to continue to pay the high vet bills, when there was no help for those kitties.

I am so sorry to read about Chance dying now

All of the awful thngs that have happened to you in the past year boggle my mind and I think of you often. I feel very helpless and like I said, I cannot imagine what you are going through. I know you love your ark very much my friend.

Please stay in touch here OK? We care for you even though there is little we can actually do. ((((gina))))