ever been forgotten?

[lute]

has a good friend ever just "forgotten" about you? a friend that you spent nearly every waking moment with. a friend that you loved and was your "BEST FRIEND". you wouldn't think it would be possible for such a good friend to just dump you like this huh? well, it happend to me.

my friend Billy and i have been best friends since the moment we met. we did everything together. i even gave him a key to my house! he came over everyday! he would just walk in, cook me dinner, and we'd hang out all night. he called Gracie his daughter.

all of the sudden Billy stopped commin over. he ignored my calls and just stopped being a friend. i didn't say or do anything. you know what the problem was? he got a girlfriend! evidently when a guy gets a girlfriend he can no longer hang out with his best friend! i see him driving with this girl often and his mom still thinks we are gonna get married someday. she has no idea that we have never planned to get married. we were just friends. i have a boyfriend and i still hang out with my friends.

sorry, i just had to talk.

[Vela]

Well most girlfriends won't tolerate a female best friend, so unfortunately those things do happen. Since you guys were never going to be a couple it was bound to happen sooner or later when he got a girlfriend. Good thing you have your boyfriend and the dogs to keep you company!

[lute]

yeah, i guess. i just hate that!

[buckner]

Unfortunately, it's happened to me many a time. I have one best friend who sticks with me through thick and thin, and him and I are incredibly close and we'd never forget eachother. But, I have another "best friend" - her and I are extremely close, but we're almost exactly opposite. Political views and religious beliefs are opposite, but mostly, it's our morals. She drinks and majorly into partying, and she's "done" things with guys - I have NO problems with anyone doing these things, I just don't personally do them. But she assumes that because I won't drink, I can't be invited to parties. Or that if she invites certain people along for something, she can't invite me because I don't "match" them... well she doesn't either! So yes, I'm left out quite a bit. But everytime, she comes back saying "I just don't think you would've had fun", or the greatest "I didn't want to hear another no" - well, if she would've ASKED me, I might've said YES! UGHHHH. I hate being left out. It's time like those where I just roll my eyes, slam my fist on the desk, and then call my guy best friend and hang out. :P


I'm sorry you essentially lost your best friend. But as soon as the girl is gone, I'm sure he'll be back. How old are you? How old is he? I think it's petty when a girlfriend doesn't "allow" her boyfriend to have friends that just happen to be female.. it's so stupid.

[lute]

i'll be 18 next week. Billy is 25.

[buckner]

i'll be 18 next week. Billy is 25.

Ehhh, boys will be boys. He'll wake up one day, and come back around. If he doesn't, give me his number and I'll make a friendly little phone call. :P

Hehe, but no, seriously. I think he'll get out of this phase. He's trying to show his girlfriend that she's the only girl in his life, that'll wear off. She'll either realize it's fake and tells him to hang out with his friends, or he'll come around to "girls will come and go, but friends will never leave".

[Pembroke_Corgi]

That's too bad! Maybe once he gets over being infatuated with his new girlfriend he will remember the rest of his friends again, I bet you are not the only one being ignored.