Major Worries! IT's EVEN WORSE!!!

[kimlovescats]

If this is a bail violation, he may not be granted another one. Just sit tight.

The women at the Sheriff's office said he would as if they really knew. I hope they are wrong!!!

[borzoimom]

sent you a pm..

[catfamily]

I'm sure he knows NOW that your daughter means business and soon he'll start behaving better.(By keeping away).At least I hope!I'm so glad your daughter has her family(You and your husband)to help her through this.Most woman don't.I'm so happy your family is close.

[borzoimom]

How is it going???

[kimlovescats]

How is it going???

Thank you for asking! We haven't heard ANYTHING since we filed for the warrant!!! I don't know if they can't find him or what! It is very disturbing and frustrating!!!! They have a court date this Thursday morning, for the restraining order, but I don't think THAT has even been served yet!!!

[borzoimom]

Thank you for asking! We haven't heard ANYTHING since we filed for the warrant!!! I don't know if they can't find him or what! It is very disturbing and frustrating!!!! They have a court date this Thursday morning, for the restraining order, but I don't think THAT has even been served yet!!!

You show up anyway. If nothing else a bench warrent will be given for his failure to appear and threat charges for a restraining. You go- and say whatever you and her need too. The judge will still listen to the restraining order as it has nothing to do with the arrest...

[kimlovescats]

We will. I sure was counting on him being arrested again by now though.

[borzoimom]

We will. I sure was counting on him being arrested again by now though.

Whether they get him yet or not, the restraining order if they dont find him, convinces the judge more so to get it done! ( trust me..)

[Ginger's Mom]

Well, actually, they can't issue a bench warrant for failure to appear for a court hearing that he was never noticed to appear at. However, borzoimom is right, your daughter Must appear at that hearing. She can ask the Judge to continue the restraints, and he may listen to some of the other concerns she has. At the next court hearing even if her husband has not been served the Judge may make the restraints permanent (issue a final restraining order). Your daughter should take a copy of the final order to ther local police department to be put in their files as well. Just make sure that your daughter shows up at every court hearing in relation to that restraining order, whether he shows up or not. I have seen RO dismissed for lack of prosecution because the complainant didn't show up.

[kimlovescats]

Thank you, Ginger's Mom, for your input as well!

[kimlovescats]

I swear!!! We finally got Chad arrested and picked back up again this afternoon. This was from the warrant we issued from him putting that note on Amy Beth's door. It was a violation of his probation. His bond was set at $60,000.00 so he had to have $6,000.00 to bail out. Well, Amy Beth just called and said that the jail called and told her that Chad just bonded out AGAIN! Where in the heck is he getting all of this money to keep getting out???? Supposedly, his mom doesn't have that kind of money! I'm just sick over this!

[cyber-sibes]

What the #x!!*#! Not again! I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The workings of the legal system just baffle the imagination sometimes. All I can say is hang in there, his behavior will surely land him back in a cell (hopefully for a while) and I pray you are all safe in the meanwhile.

[kimlovescats]

What the #x!!*#! Not again! I'm so sorry you have to go through this. The workings of the legal system just baffle the imagination sometimes. All I can say is hang in there, his behavior will surely land him back in a cell (hopefully for a while) and I pray you are all safe in the meanwhile.

Thank you for caring! I feel like many have just moved on from this thread, but it's real in our lives and is no where near over!

[joycenalex]

dear kim, i haven't posted before, but i've been reading every update. you all have been in my prayers. i have an idea, can you and your daughter get an appointment to talk to the lead proscuter in your area, bring all the copies of notes, the bailbonds, any police reports, hospital reports, anything related to this case and when you talk to them this time, tell the DA that you will also be talking notes from this meeting and going to the local editor of the biggest paper in town and what ever tv station has an "action team on your side". publicity makes poor public preformance improve. smile, gently mention this. and we'll keep praying for you all

[kimlovescats]

dear kim, i haven't posted before, but i've been reading every update. you all have been in my prayers. i have an idea, can you and your daughter get an appointment to talk to the lead proscuter in your area, bring all the copies of notes, the bailbonds, any police reports, hospital reports, anything related to this case and when you talk to them this time, tell the DA that you will also be talking notes from this meeting and going to the local editor of the biggest paper in town and what ever tv station has an "action team on your side". publicity makes poor public preformance improve. smile, gently mention this. and we'll keep praying for you all

Thank you. I already tried to call the DA's office and was told that there are at least 3 different DA's and they have 100's of cases coming up at the same time. Basically they couldn't do anything ... we would just have to wait until the day of court and fill them in at the last minute! Some system, huh? As far as calling the news .... we're not "big time" enough.

Tomorrow morning, Amy Beth has to be in court at 9:00 a.m. for the restraining order she filed OVER a WEEK ago! As of today, it hadn't even been served yet!!! I don't know if they served it when they arrested him today or not ... I doubt it! So, most likely she will waste her time in court tomorrow, he probably won't be there, and she will get put off for who knows how long.

The court date for the aggravated assault charge is January 2nd. All I can do is hope and pray that he is sent to jail for a LONG time after that! I never thought I would ever want Christmas to come and go and the first of the year come.