"Pet Angel Fund for Spaying Gizzy et al"

[Roxyluvsme13]

It's rather personal and then everyone would just hate me more.

[kittycats_delight]

Then tell us.

I think if you want her to tell you then it is best in PM & if Bri feels she can tell you then she will do so. I have heard a lot of it and I am sure not all and it is very personal and not everyone would understand.

[Roxyluvsme13]

Thanks, Michelle.

It's just something I don't feel comfortable talking about and I'm pretty sure my real friends don't even know about it. Only two of my well trusted online friends know and it's just something really personal. And most people would convict me of more things because it's hard to understand.

[dogzr#1]

Yes, know 'the other half' and how personal it is. I don't think should have to share it if she doesn't want to. Knowing this piece of information, I can see why Bri is wary, if you will, of asking her mom to do so much stuff concerning Gizzie and all the other pets. I know my mom would get annoyed if I bugged her about taking me here and there for a pet, even if it was the right thing to do. Most parents, not all, think a dog is healthy when it's getting food and water. And by reading what Bri's mom said, I can say she is one of those parents. she is getting annoyed by Gizzie and threatened to throw her out on the streets. You have to take 'baby steps' in these kinds of situations because in a snap her mom can change her mind and just do that, throw her out.

I KNOW Bri is thankful for all of this help but right now she is under a lot of pressure- PTers are getting her upset as Michelle has said, she has to plan and maintain the fund set up, she has to do all this work regarding the vet and vet care (ie appointments etc.) and she has to do all this without bugging her mom that much. I think under all these circumstances she is doing a wonderful job.

[Vela]

I'm really sorry that they don't still offer that. At least you made the effort and I applaud you for that. I hope things will work out for you.

[Catty1]

1. I had a hysterectomy one week ago today. I am my mom's. I CANNOT answer PMs, and sometimes cannot even post messages.

IF YOU HAVE SENT ME PMs on LOW COST SPAY NEUTER or ANYTHING ELSE, I CANNOT DO ANYTHING WITH THE INFO.

2. NO ONE SAID DR ROBINSON WAS LOW-COST! HE HAS THE PET ANGEL FUND WHICH PEOPLE DONATE TO.

SUGGESTION - GET GIZZY DONE AT DR R'S. THEN LET'S FIND ONE OF THE GOOD LOW-COST CLINICS, ONE OF WHICH IS IN JOHNSON CITY, AND SEE ABOUT FUNDING THEM.

I AM NOT FLAMING, JUST TRYING TO BE EMPHATIC WHILE I CAN ACTUALLY GET THIS DIAL-UP TO COOPERATE.

WILL BE BACK BY THURSDAY NITE MT

[Alysser]

I just wanted to say, that I have been in the same situations where I begged my parents to take my pets or strays or something to a vet, or take them in and it has always been rejected. My parents aren't what you'd call "pet people", and you have to face the fact that some parents aren't. They allow their child to get a pet but expect it to be ok with just food, shelter, and water. That is what my parents think sometimes.

I don't think anyone here likes the situation Bri is in with her pets right now, she doesn't like it either. I am sure many of you think we teens "make excuses" alot of the time but my parents just don't like animals as much as me and they don't agree with bringing an animal to the vet very easily. I know this from asking many a time, and I have alot of experience with it.

Pretty pointless post, but just felt I needed to let it out.

[Roxyluvsme13]

I just wanted to say, that I have been in the same situations where I begged my parents to take my pets or strays or something to a vet, or take them in and it has always been rejected. My parents aren't what you'd call "pet people", and you have to face the fact that some parents aren't. They allow their child to get a pet but expect it to be ok with just food, shelter, and water. That is what my parents think sometimes.

I don't think anyone here likes the situation Bri is in with her pets right now, she doesn't like it either. I am sure many of you think we teens "make excuses" alot of the time but my parents just don't like animals as much as me and they don't agree with bringing an animal to the vet very easily. I know this from asking many a time, and I have alot of experience with it.

Pretty pointless post, but just felt I needed to let it out.

Thank you Alyssa

[k9krazee]

So did an appointment ever get scheduled then...or what? What's going on? How long do you have until the fund is given to other needy animals?

[Hellow]

update, please?

[Roxyluvsme13]

We found out the price.

Jenn is going to call them and see how much is in the fund tomorrow.

And she's going to check on the price without the leukemia test.

So, we won't know anything more til tomorrow.

[emilysgk]

Toes...Toes...Toes. I think no matter which way ones opinion/comments go, your stepping on some toes.

All this talk of age, maturity, mom who dont care in the least, nothing being accomplished. Wow. So hard to make up from down, wrong from right. Its crazy stuff here. Mom simply dont care. Ok, yes there are people out there who dont see an animal as anything with worth. instead of finding a home, she wants to try and help Giz and mom get along. Great.. but I dont know. There are many things to consider. I could get back into the negative of not getting out of bed to make a call. Im sorry, but its a poor excuse. I am a nocturnal insomniac with 4 children. I trained my kids to sleep in from birth. But today, I crawled out of bed at 7am after very few hours of sleep. I took my cat to the vet (after saving for months) I came home, to my 3 kids (one in school) I took care of them and the house and whatnot. No naps, no second chance to sleep. There is no excus in that. I will also get up and repeat the process tomorrow to get the cat home. Its worth it. I went 3 solid days without sleep to care for 4 newborn kittens, mom and my 4 kids.. I was up late last night because I had to take care of my FISH who had to have a water change due to toxins. Fish I lost sleep over.

When I first saw this thread. I thought that Bri was great. She was being responsible where her mother wouldnt. I even posted that. Things change. Too many to list really. Maturity has little to do with it at this point. People in this age range can grow up, and fast, when they need or want to. I see neither here. I was taking care of my own baby at 16, and the father the same age worked and supported it.

I dont know the story. Bri, you can PM if you would like. But when it comes down to it, I dont see what can happen where you decide to put yourself, and your happiness before your animals. I know people often dont see things the same as what people from the outside can or do. But when it comes down to it, you put the animal before you. I have done this in the past. It is VERY hard, yes. But times do come that its the only option. I gave up a dog I saved at 2 weeks from certain death and had to give him up after 2 years, for him. Not for me. I knew it was the right thing to do. (and I have many other stories too)

Other things must be considered in there care. What happens if they do get fixed and shots and are good to go... Then one day one falls incredibly ill? Then what? Would your mother care enough... no. Would she even care enough to at minimum pts if called for? Honestly I doubt that. Im not trying to say your mom is a horrible person. She simply does not see an animal as more than a thing. Which is fine. But that means that she should not be responsible for animals, and in this case she dont want to be and your fighting her. Money may be a technical issue, but its not the root of the problem. Dont assume I dont know about money either. (since you would probably pick that right up I will explain) I can nearly guarantee you that my family of 6 (Plus 3 cats, 2 newts and a number of fish) are living on less right now. With enough will and effort I have saved to get Snow spayed. Now I am starting the slow process for 2 more cats. You will not ever change your mother. She just dont want animals. You should do your best, but if you cant get things in order, place them. Carefully chosen homes. In time you will have the chance to provide happy homes in the future when your an adult yourself.

I hope in the end all comes out well. Weather that be being spayed or a new home.

[Pawsitive Thinking]

Have read entire thread and have got a headache. Just 3 points

1. Are the animals okay?

2. If Mom hates them so much why not just say "no you can't have a pet" - plenty do. Once you have a place of your own (i.e. when you are older) you can fill it with as many animals as you want as long as you are able to provide for each and every one of them

and

3. If she slept with her phone under her pillow someone could take her number and give her an early morning wake up call!!


(was going to put point 4 - when did Borzoi come back but thought better of it )

One more thing - this is just my opinion but I don't think parents should let their children have pets unless the parent is prepared to take on the care and responsiblity of the animal. I only let my daughter have all our animals because I knew I would be happy to look after them too and not leave it all to her. My parents weren't "pet people" which is why I didn't get every cat/dog/rabbit I set my heart on - doesn't make them bad parents, makes them responsible

[JenBKR]

I just found and read this today. I'm not even sure how to respond. I think it was amazingly generous of the PTers who donated to the fund. You guys are great. I honestly think that if you are not going to be able to care for the pets, you should consider rehoming. However, you might still be able to pull through this. Any updates?

[jennielynn1970]

Just spoke to Linda at the office, and so far there is has only been one donation in the amount of $60.00

Had there been other donations made?? I thought I read earlier that there had been more money donated???