I feel a breakdown coming on..lol..sigh..

**poofy** · 10-11-2005, 07:22 PM

My youngest daughter has been with me all her 30 years we have never been to far from each other. Nothing has evey pulled us apart.But she broke up with her boyfriend of 11 years, and he wont leave her alone, so she is going to Ok for about a year. That seems like an eternity to me.For her and the kids to be gone even a week to camping was hard enough.. But she really feels the need to get away and I undersatand. We have family out there on her dads side and he lives there. My oldest daughter lives there and my middle daughter lives in VA. I feel it in the pit of my stomach, rising up.I have been praying for help to not make it hard on her to do what she feels is good for her and the kids, They are taking Kirby him and the kids adore each other.
We always talk on the phone if we arent with each other. Thank the LOrd we will still be able to do that..I just will miss them all so much,its so hard to let go.

**moosmom** · 10-11-2005, 08:37 PM

Poofy,

Him not leaving her alone is called "stalking" and there are laws against it. Can she get a restraining order against him??? Going to OK is a little drastic, that is unless she WANTS to go.

That's too bad. I know you'll miss her. It's hard letting go. But my daughter, who will be 30 in March went out on her own and it was hard for me. But we've managed to adjust. Now that I'm coming back to CT from MI for good, she's happy as a clam.

Hang in there. PM me if you need to chat.

Donna

**poofy** · 10-12-2005, 12:13 AM

I think its her fault he wont let go, she feels sorry for him..You know what i mean..and hes the one fixing her car to leave, and uses it as a lever to see her more..any way they car is almost done and she will be able to go, she has a bit of an itchy foot..has gone visiting a lot back there and va. She loves to go places but hasnt done it like she would like because of me, and her dogs she wont leave them very long at a time..3 days to 6 days the most then she has to be back with them, and her samson is going with her, the other dog shadow , her boyfriend is keeping and she now has kirby..hes a little spit fire..lol..will keep her busy..he got lose form me last night ,hes usually very docile on the leash but all of a sudden he jerked and i lost it..she got in the car and found him just on the next lot..have to watch that little bugger.Sammyj jsut stood there looking to where he went.We have so much in common and like the same things. Even as a child when i worked I was lucky enought to be able to work where I could take her with me..till she started school.Thanks for ans my post. Its not easy on a mother no matter how old they are , my oldest that is 41 now, moved to ok with her now husband and I was so angry at him for taking her off..lol..I cried and wouldnt even speak to her for a mo..it broke my heart.I still miss her so much, Its hard to talk on the phone..hes a sweet person, but I kept telling him , I was mad at him..lol..thanks agian..