My first foster. :(

[PJ's Mom]

I got a call from the lady who's trying to find us a foster pup. A 7 month old lab/spaniel mix puppy was in need of a home because her current foster mom is going on the road doing dog shows.

We met this dog at the adoption thingy last weekend, and I've never seen a more hyper dog in my life. The dog barked almost constantly and played for two straight hours without getting tired.

Because this would've been my first time fostering, and because this dog would be such a handful, I turned her down. I thought that for my first time I should get a dog a little better suited to be around Peej and Bailey and the cats.

The lady was very understanding and nice about it, but I can't help but think that I blew it. Should I have taken the little dog even if I thought it wouldn't work? What if the coordinator of this rescue never calls back because she thinks we're undependable?

Have you ever had to turn a foster away?

[Kfamr]

I think since this was going to be your first foster you did the right thing. The lady should think the same if she knows anything about animals. She should be exceptionally happy that you're keeping your own animals in mind because that shows you ARE a dependable and responsible person.

Have a more calm dog would be a lot less hard on your animals until they get used to having guests often. You've got to go with your gut instinct and do what's best for you and your animals.

[BitsyNaceyDog]

I'm sure she respects your need to put your pets first. That's very important and I'm sure she understands that. I'm sure they appreciate anyone willing to foster. I don't think you blew it.

[Jadapit]

I agree with everything Kay said!! You did the right thing. I'm sure the lady totally understands where you are coming from. You did NOT blow it. You will have a foster dog before you know it.

[jenluckenbach]

You did RIGHT! Taking that dog into your home would have been like me taking a cat that hated being around other cats. The dog you foster be suitable to live with and fit into your family. as you do not know how long it will be with you.
It might take some time to find you your first foster. I started to wonder if they even WANTED me when I offered to foster. But believe me, they DO want and need you. Hang in there for a better fit.

[Muddy4paws]

I think you did the right thing and that lady would of thought you were sensible enough to be honest about the dog instead of taking it just for the good impression, There will be more dogs that are more suitable, Im sure she understand that you have to think about your pets and lifestyle and you need to find one that can fit around you and being honest with her will avoid the dog being dragged from home to home so I think you did the right thing!


p.s

Can we have some more bailey and Peej photos please

[Ginger's Mom]

I agree, you did the right thing. You do not want your first foster experience to be so stressful that you don't want to do it again. I am sure the coordinator understands that, and I am guessing that is one of the reasons why she had you meet the pup first. It was very smart on both of your parts. I know that she will call you back, because I am sure that your articulated your reasons very well, and indicated that you are in fact still interested in fostering a different dog. And she knows that good, responsible homes like yours are exactly what she needs. Believe me you will have one soon enough.

[Lobodeb]

I agree with everyone else, but thought I would add 2 more cents.

If for whatever crazy reason, this place doesn't call you back to foster, then I hope they realize what a terrible loss they've just suffered because we all know that there are far too many homeless animals out there.

Good luck!

[DJFyrewolf36]

I think it is better to realize now, before you take in a foster, what will work with your pets and what wont. It looks a lot worse to take a foster in and then take it right back to the shelter because of incompatablilty issues. I admire your maturity in keeping your pets first and foremost in your thoughts.

Don't worry, a foster will most assuredly come your way as there are lots of pups in need of homes!

[lizbud]

Originally posted by Ginger's Mom
I agree, you did the right thing. You do not want your first foster experience to be so stressful that you don't want to do it again. I am sure the coordinator understands that, and I am guessing that is one of the reasons why she had you meet the pup first. It was very smart on both of your parts. I know that she will call you back, because I am sure that your articulated your reasons very well, and indicated that you are in fact still interested in fostering a different dog. And she knows that good, responsible homes like yours are exactly what she needs. Believe me you will have one soon enough.

I agree. As a first time fosterer, I hope they are able to match
up up with a better fit for you & your family situation.Good luck.

[Logan]

Dawn, you did the right thing. Don't even give it a second thought (although I know you care so much and you will worry). I have had to have some pretty major restrictions in the last couple of years when I fostered due to the fact that we have Murphy who is so old and can't handle the exuberance of a young dog, plus the fact that there are two cats in this house, one of them quite old. It took a special, older dog for me to be able to foster. Unfortunately/fortunately, I fell in love with the last one and he has lived here for almost two years! My Zipper!!!! LOL!!!!! Now there is no room to foster anyone!!!! I try to help them out in other ways, though.

Logan

[NoahsMommy]

Your first loyalty is to your current resident animals...if it wouldn't work with them, then it was the best decision.

Don't feel bad. Another will come along.

(((Hugs)))

[anna_66]

Dawn I'm going to echo what's already been said, but I do think you did the right thing.
You can't bring a foster into the house that is going to make your or your other animals life stressful.

If they don't call you back, they've really lost a wonderful person!

[jazzcat]

I'm agreeing with the rest, you did the right thing. I can't imagine it would make them feel any way but that you are taking this very seriously and want to do the best thing for all involved. I'm sure they will call you again.

I think it's great that you are going to foster!!!

[cali]

I agree, you are used to having calmer dogs, I think it shows that you are very reasonable, being able to know what you and your dogs can handle. I am sure their are other foster homes more equipped to having such an energetic dog around