How old were you.......

[PayItForward]

......When you decided on your sexual orientation ?

I have made the Poll multi choice so if people WANT to they can also add if they are straight or gay.

For example I choose the options :-

I always knew my orientation (no decision)
AND
I'm Straight

[Kfamr]

I still haven't "decided"...

I'm more so attracted to males than females. BUT - I've always thought that if I were to fall in love with a female, than that would be that.

I "guess" i'd be labeled as Bisexual, but I don't care either way.
If I fall in love with a male, fine.
If I fall in love with a female, fine.

NOTHING is going to stop me from loving someone, unless it's them.

[cloverfdx]

I guess i was a little confused when i was younger (Say 15-18) and did not know what i wanted or what sex i wanted to be with. After one relationship with a guy, i knew i could never be in an honest open relationship with a man.

That was not the best time of my life, but i had to take the time and figure it all out. I could not be happier now, i am confident and quite happy.

And i did not read the question before replying to the poll, so only put in the one answer (I am gay *well on my way to hell* ).

[animal_rescue]

I'm a closet bisexual, only a few close friends and online people know this. The reason I'm so open here is because you don't know me which makes me more comfortable to talk about it.

[CalliesMom]

I haven't told many people; probably my family and my husband know but when I was 15 I went threw a *crisis* (at the time I thought it was a crisis) where I thought I might be a lesbian. I was horrified and the only person I could talk to about it was my father, strange huh? We had a very close relationship and I knew he would not love me any less. He didn't quite care if I married "John" or "Joan" as long as I was happy and I hope to instill that same value in my children.

Over the years, I've come to prefer men. I've never done anything with a woman but I've also been with my husband since I was in high school so never had the opportunity. I don't know if I was single now if I would date a woman, but I guess I will never know.

Someone's sexual orientation is their business. I don't care unless they are with someone who treats them poorly. I just want someone to be happy and to find that person who completes them in every way--luckily for me, I found that person and couldn't have asked for any better.

[Kristl]

i never even had to think about it! i live in a very small town where if it's not the norm, it's wrong. but even still i have always loved men!

[Cataholic]

Well, while I would like to respond to your poll, I cannot. Why? Well, depending on the day of the week, I am different. You know, conscious choice and all that....

[Kristl]

oh yeah, i'm a girl

[Kfamr]

Originally posted by Cataholic
Well, while I would like to respond to your poll, I cannot. Why? Well, depending on the day of the week, I am different. You know, conscious choice and all that....

[CalliesMom]

LOL Cataholic. Why do people care so much who others sleep with? It's not like they are having sex with you! Move on and get a life.

[PayItForward]

Originally posted by Cataholic
Well, while I would like to respond to your poll, I cannot. Why? Well, depending on the day of the week, I am different. You know, conscious choice and all that....

ROTFLMAO

Originally posted by CalliesMom
LOL Cataholic. Why do people care so much who others sleep with? It's not like they are having sex with you! Move on and get a life.

LOL, You hit the nail on the head, who cares what others do in bed. Unless it is your bed and you are in it

I only started this poll to show that few people decide their sexuality, it just IS.

[dukedogsmom]

Well at least we know this one won't be deleted

[CalliesMom]

Originally posted by PayItForward
ROTFLMAO



LOL, You hit the nail on the head, who cares what others do in bed. Unless it is your bed and you are in it

I only started this poll to show that few people decide their sexuality, it just IS.

PIF, I didn't meant to insinuate that you started the thread for any other reason. I was simply trying to share my view point that people spend WAY TOO MUCH time caring what others do behind closed doors. Oh well.

[Tonya]

I went through a confusing time when I was 16-17 and I wasn't quite sure. I eventually figured out who I was and what I wanted. I suppose I'm hetrosexual, but sometimes I wonder. lol. Those days when hubby is being insensitive and uncaring, I think about how nice it'd be to be married to a woman that understands. There are alot of qualities that men lack that I emotionally need. On the same line, there are also alot of qualities in a woman that I cannot stand. I have many more men friends then woman friends.

If I ever wound up single again, God knows who I'd date. I'd say anyone who could fullfill me. I think that being homosexual is so complicated and difficult that I'd lean more towards men just to keep life simple. My gay friends go through so many hardships that I have never even imagined.

Which, BTW, is why I believe that homosexuality isn't a choice. Why would anyone make their lives so difficult on purpose?

[Amber]

straight.