I need some ideas , buttons is a 9 year old, formerly active and playful cat, up until 2 weeks ago, she has had ear mites off and on her whole life, she was at the vet for an ear infection and was treated with a cream in the ears, but now she has lost her balance, appitite, and won't even play, she also droped 5 lbs..the doctor said she had two seperate problems, one, the ear infection, and gave her an antibiotic, and possibly epilepsy??? and started her on phenobarbitol.she seems to respond for a while but the gets really wobbly about an hour before her next dose. she has some what of an appitite, now, I was able to get some food and milk into her, any ideas?????, thanks fern