Herman(a betta) is dieing right before my very eyes! I don't know what to do he is suffering, he is on his side gasping for breath fighting for his life! I hafta keep poking him! His ill health started when he was my sister's fish, she put him in artic cold water never cleaned or fed him, I took him from her and have been trying to nurse him back to health. His fins are very crinkled up and his color is practically gone! What should I do, let him suffer? Flush him down the toilet to end his misery? help! WHat would you do! Is there anyway I can save his life?!