What to do, what to do...

[teenster3]

My husband can't stand our newest addition... my Eskimo (Waffles) that my friend gave us back in Feb.
See, she's still a puppy (8 months) & I have posted about her before!
She's starting to destroy things while we are gone at work during the day. She's also peeing & pooping (all the time) on the carpet in the living room.
The compromise is: If I want to keep her, I have to keep her crated every time there is no one around to "watch" her. I just hate the thought of having to use a crate when we've both been leaving her out of it for so long. (she cries when put in there & doesn't stop)
My husband says: he has no attachment to her & he's sick to death of her destroying everything in sight! He also thinks that she's "changed" the behavior of our Lhasa (Wicket). He's been aggressive since the day I got him but, was more playful before she came along. My hubby doesn't think Wicket likes her but, I just can't or won't give her up!!!!
I've been told to try professional training but there again, hubby says: it's a waste of time & money. He thinks Waffles is too stupid & Wicket is too head-strong!
Has anybody had this happen to them & what did you do?
I think she's just a pup & WILL grow out of it in time!
She's a mini. american eskimo......does anyone else have one that can tell me more about them???

[Cookiebaker]

DEFINITELY give the crate a try.

When I first got Malone, I was totally against it. It wasn't fair to see him all cooped up and he would whine and whine.

But then he started acting like a puppy chewing things, and he NEVER slept. After 3 weeks, I was totally worn out from chasing him non-stop to see what he was chewing on next.

Yes, it took a while 'til he was happy to go into his crate. But it is so worth it! He would not pee/poo in his crate so it helped potty training immensely. When I couldn't supervise him, I knew he was safe. And when he went in it, he went to sleep.

My boys are still crated during the day when I go to work. They are out of it the rest of the time. Sometimes, Emerson will wake up at 5 or 5:30 and not go back to sleep, so I will put him in the crate so the rest of us can sleep in a bit.

There are plenty of resources on line and at book stores. Please think about it, and it could really save your relationship with both your hubby and your dog!

[Pam]

I second what Cookiebaker said. The crate will be a tremendous aid in housebreaking Waffles and keeping your things safe. I am not worried about Waffles as much (because I know he can learn) as I am about your hubby's attitude. It is best to be 'of one mind' when trying to train a pup. It is a very stressful time (frankly I am glad those days are long behind me! ) and you need each other to be working together on this. Some dogs are a little more challenging and headstrong than others. I have had 6 poodles in my adult life and each one was different, with their own personality. I hope that Waffles and Wicket can eventually come to a place when they can co-exist somewhat peacefully, even if they do not become best buddies. Puppies can often get on an older dog's nerves. How old is Wicket?

[teenster3]

Wicket will be 4 in August.
I'm just hoping that everything will work out & fall into place like it should. I do wish my hubby was more supportive in her though.
I understand it costs money to replace things but, things aren't as important to me as animals are!!!
I think his biggest concern is replacing the carpeting, & other expensive items.
I agree that the crate will have to be sufficient for now!