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    It's stories like this that make me afraid to be a parent..

    http://www.cincypost.com/2004/01/10/burn011004.html

    I can't imagine doing ANYTHING like that. My parents would kill me. Absolutely sickening...


    Teen burned home to hide parties

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    By Kimball Perry
    Post staff reporter

    John Layne started Christmas early last year, flying to San Diego with his wife Dec. 5 to visit his father.
    Layne, 40, instructed his 16-year-old son, a sophomore at Oak Hills High, to behave and not have any parties.

    That sensible parental advice fell on deaf ears, though, as "hundreds of kids" partied all week at Layne's Dent house, neighbors later told him. They were neighbors who would, on the day Layne was due to return to his Ebenezer Road home, call to report the house was burning to the ground.

    Even worse for Layne, his son was convicted this week in Hamilton County Common Pleas Court after admitting he burned down the house in a desperate attempt to cover up the damage his forbidden parties caused.

    "He set three separate fires and torched it with gas," Layne said Tuesday as bulldozers knocked down the charred remains of his house, a loss the insurance company estimated at $380,000 for the house and its contents. "They got him to admit on tape he set the fires."

    Layne found out about the fire, but not the culprit, Dec. 13 just before he was to fly back to Cincinnati.

    "You talk about a long flight home," he said with a laugh, his wife next to him watching the demolition. "I was just sick."

    His pain increased, though, when he was told his own flesh and blood was to blame.

    "I couldn't believe my own son would do this. He showed no remorse at the trial. He just sat there," Layne said. "It's just been a nightmare you just can't wake up from."

    While his son lived with his ex-wife in Price Hill, Layne allowed his son to come to his house each morning so the teen could attend Oak Hills and ride there with a neighbor.

    When they were leaving Dent for the airport, Layne's son was his usual personable self.

    "He gave us a huge hug and said, 'Have a good time.' I told him I would bring him a T-shirt," Layne said.

    He warned the teen not to have parties, believing the warning was enough because the teen had never been a problem.

    Instead, he later found out, the teen had "parties all week" that resulted in some damage to the house -- holes in a few walls and a kitchen cabinet was scratched -- but nothing that couldn't be repaired.

    The fire was so hot -- exceeding 2,000 degrees, fire officials estimated -- that the house's I-beam that supported the house buckled, forcing the entire structure to be razed.

    "It's incredible to me. He burned down the house to try to cover it up," Layne said.

    "It's enough to nauseate you. We've cried. We've pretty much gone through the whole range of emotions.

    "It's like there is an empty hole in my stomach. You just don't understand how this happened."

    Layne's ex-wife did not return calls requesting comment for this article.

    Layne's nausea returned when he learned his son likely would receive minimal punishment for his admitted crimes.

    The teen was convicted Monday when assistant prosecutors reduced the charges against him. They told Layne they expected the teen to receive a "slap on the wrist" and be ordered to receive counseling.

    Prosecutor Mike Allen called his assistant's representation to Layne "a poor choice of words" but said it was likely accurate. Those, he added, are the frustrations of dealing with juvenile criminals who usually aren't subject to punishment once they reach the age of majority.

    "I thought that they would send him away to a juvenile home until he was 18 or something," Layne said.

    Layne likely will end his relationship with his son.

    "The sad thing is, we lost my son in this, too. "I felt betrayed and hurt. I never want him on my property again," Layne said.

    "That's probably the last I'll see of him. To do something like this is just monstrous."

    He and his wife have been living in an apartment since the fire. They plan to rebuild.

    "I guess we just go on with our lives," he said.


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    And my parents think I'm bad....

    Wow, I can't even imagine anyone doing that. I feel sorry for his parents.

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    When they were leaving Dent for the airport, Layne's son was his usual personable self.

    "He gave us a huge hug and said, 'Have a good time.' I told him I would bring him a T-shirt,"
    Layne said.

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    I TORCHED MY HOUSE AND ALL I GOT WAS THIS LOUSY T-SHIRT.



    If he was my kid I would thank the cops for taking him away......I would have killed the twerp.
    And who in their right mind leaves a 16 year old at home with no supervision?????

    Bad move, Chucky.
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    Originally posted by RICHARD
    I TORCHED MY HOUSE AND ALL I GOT WAS THIS LOUSY T-SHIRT.
    LMAO Richard.

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    And what about the neighbors who watched 'hundred's of kids" partying at the house.....




    NO PHONE CALL....Imagine that!
    a.h.'s waited until the house burned down.....

    I'd sell and find a neighborhood where real neighbors live........
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    When I was 15, my parents went out of town and I threw a party. It got out of hand and the yard got toilet papered and someone fried my guppies. I was grounded for 6 months.

    I'm gonna send this to my folks to show them what a Really bad kid does. Makes me feel less dysfunctional!

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    OMG!!!! Crazy kid. I suppose the parents are to blame as well though..............you don't leave that type of kid alone for such an extensive period of time. It just isn't the smart thing to do.........

    2kitties..............you were a crazy kid eh? I would NEVER do something like that, and still, my parents wouldn't leave me home alone and go on vacation. Heck I wouldn't let them anyway. I'd be much too scared to stay alone at night!

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    and we're not allowed to spank our kids....hmm...

    I'd press charges agianst him if he were my kid and have him put in jail or juvi (sp?)

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    oh yeah...i would probly throw a small party while my parents were gone, just for the heck of it..but it wouldn't be some crazy party....but then agian my mom is to paraniod to leave while she travels somewhere and i have two siblings who would tell on me in a heartbeat...so my chances of throwing a party are pretty slim

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    Yup, crazy kid.

    I'm sure the father will be glad he doesn't have to see the 'twerp' again.

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    My parents would have never left me alone when I was 16. Only once in high school did they go on a trip without me and they had my aunt stay at the house with me to make sure nothing bad happened. The first time I was actually left there alone oevernight I was 19 (I had gone home from college for summer vacation). I wasn't supposed to invite anyone over, but I got scared in that big house alone and invited a friend to spend the night. But when my parents got back into town I ended up telling them about it. I can't believe what this kid did! I didn't want kids before, but now I am even more sure that I never want to have children.
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    Oh yes ... bad, spoiled, horrid child ... no doubt. He ought to be spending a good, long time in a juvenile home.

    However .....

    John Layne started Christmas early last year, flying to San Diego with his wife Dec. 5 to visit his father. Layne, 40, instructed his 16-year-old son, a sophomore at Oak Hills High, to behave and not have any parties. That sensible parental advice fell on deaf ears, though ...
    Oh, ya think?!?! Sensible parental advice falling on deaf teenage ears? Who would have thunk it???

    What kind of IDIOTS leave their sixteen year old alone with no supervision, not even a relative staying in the house or checking in every night? That is SO incredibly stupid. No, no one expects their kids to torch their own house ... however, most parents WOULD expect their kid to throw a party, or break their curfew or otherwise break the rules left alone with no adults. Come on .....
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    Wow. That is awful. I just don't know what I would do if my son did something like that. Of course I mentioned this to my son and he says its the parents fault for making the kid so afraid of them that he couldn't tell the truth....then he said he was just teasing that there is really something wrong with that kid.

    My parents left me and my sister home every once in awhile for long weekends and stuff. I had some pretty fun parties back then. I never got to fully enjoy them though. I was always too paranoid about what kind of damage would be done and was constantly going around checking out what everyone was doing and making sure things were ok. I don't think my parents ever knew. We told them about it not too long ago and they acted completely shocked. Especially when my sister told them that she had the keg of beer sitting in the middle of the kitchen..hehehe. My parents can be so naive at times....lol.

    I have also left my son home alone quite a bit in his teen years. I have been very lucky that my son seems to be a responsible kid when we are away. I don't feel I am naive and I don't think he has me fooled. He is against drinking and drugs and the whole party scene We are pretty open with each other. My son has just told me that the first time we left him alone for the weekend he was fifteen and after he got his liscense we started going away a little bit more on the weekends.

    Ok, I'm rambling now...Robin

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    Just wanted to point out that I'm not one of the IDIOTS. My son knew that his grandparents and his aunt were always around and would be calling and could drive by at any time. Also, I have great neighbors next door.

    Robin

    P.S. Hehehe...my son took offense to the idiot remark. I think he thought you were referring to me. He says the only idiots are the parents that don't teach their kids values, love and respect. Wow, I can't believe he actually said that. This is the same kid who was screaming at me the other day that I just need to leave him alone and quit parenting him all the time.....lol. He's 20 now and sorry but the parenting never stops!...lol....especially since he's still at home.

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    Originally posted by RobiLee

    I had some pretty fun parties back then. I never got to fully enjoy them though. I was always too paranoid about what kind of damage would be done and was constantly going around checking out what everyone was doing and making sure things were ok. I don't think my parents ever knew. We told them about it not too long ago and they acted completely shocked.
    hehe...that's why you go to other peoples parties

    my aunt threw a party ine time when her parents were gone (about a year after my mom moved out) and they never knew, until they told my grandparents and my grampa thought it was funny, but my grama got really mad (my aunt was 30 at the time) lol

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