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    Furor over adopted boy sent back to Russia alone

    This makes me so incredibly mad. Did the Russian organization withhold information about the child's mental health so he might be adopted? Did the American adoption agency not follow up with the adoptive family to see how things were going? What other steps did the mother and grandmother take?



    SHELBYVILLE, Tenn. -- A Tennessee woman has stirred international outrage by sending a Russian boy she adopted back to Moscow on a flight by himself, yet local authorities said it's not clear if she broke any laws.

    The 7-year-old boy, Artyom Savelyev, was put on a plane with a note saying his adoptive mother no longer wanted to parent him because he was violent and had severe psychological problems. While her actions were condemned by Russia's president and U.S. diplomats, the sheriff investigating the case said it's not clear if anyone can be charged.
    "You know, you look at it and it's hard to say exactly if a law has been broken here," Bedford County Sheriff Randall Boyce said. "This is extremely unusual. I don't think anyone has seen something like this before."

    Russia threatened to suspend all child adoptions by U.S. families over the treatment of the boy, who was called Justin Hansen by the Tennessee family.

    The boy's adoptive grandmother, Nancy Hansen of Shelbyville, said the boy was violent and angry with her daughter. She said she flew with the boy to Washington and then put him on a plane to Moscow.

    "He drew a picture of our house burning down, and he'll tell anybody that he's going to burn our house down with us in it," she told The Associated Press in a telephone interview. "It got to be where you feared for your safety. It was terrible."

    Authorities in Tennessee were investigating the adoptive mother, Torry Hansen, 33.

    Bob Tuke, a Nashville attorney and member of the American Academy of Adoption Attorneys, said abandonment charges against the family could depend on whether the boy was a U.S. citizen.

    It wasn't clear if the adoption had become final. A Tennessee health department spokeswoman said there was no birth certificate issued for the boy, a step that would indicate he had become a U.S. citizen.

    The sheriff said Hansen initially agreed to be interviewed by authorities but then postponed it after talking to a lawyer.

    Boyce said it would be difficult to substantiate claims by Russian officials that the mother mistreated the child.

    "We're here, and the child is in Russia, so it's hard for us to know whether this child has been abused," Boyce said.

    The boy arrived unaccompanied in Moscow on a United Airlines flight on Thursday from Washington. The Kremlin children's rights office said the adoptive mother wrote in her note she was returning him because of severe psychological problems.

    "This child is mentally unstable. He is violent and has severe psychopathic issues," the letter said. "I was lied to and misled by the Russian Orphanage workers and director regarding his mental stability and other issues. ...

    "After giving my best to this child, I am sorry to say that for the safety of my family, friends, and myself, I no longer wish to parent this child."

    Russian Foreign Minister Sergey Lavrov called the family's actions "the last straw" in a string of U.S. adoptions gone wrong, including three in which Russian children had died in the U.S. The cases have prompted outrage in Russia, where foreign adoption failures are reported prominently.

    Russian President Dmitry Medvedev strongly condemned the family's actions, telling ABC News that the boy "fell into a very bad family."

    "It is a monstrous deed on the part of his adoptive parents, to take the kid and virtually throw him out with the airplane in the opposite direction and to say, 'I'm sorry I could not cope with it, take everything back' is not only immoral but also against the law," Medvedev said.

    A freeze on adoptions could affect hundreds of American families. Last year, nearly 1,600 Russian children were adopted in the United States, and more than 60,000 Russian orphans have been successfully adopted there, according to the National Council For Adoption, a U.S. adoption advocacy nonprofit group.

    The boy was adopted in September from the town of Partizansk in Russia's Far East.

    Nancy Hansen, the grandmother, rejected assertions of child abandonment. She said he was watched by a United Airlines flight attendant and that the family paid a man $200 to pick the boy up at the Moscow airport and take him to the Russian Education and Science Ministry.

    Nancy Hansen said a social worker checked on the boy in January and reported to Russian authorities that there were no problems. But after that, the grandmother said incidents of hitting, kicking and spitting began to escalate, along with threats.

    She said she and her daughter went to Russia together to adopt the boy, and she believes information about his behavioral problems was withheld from her daughter.

    "The Russian orphanage officials completely lied to her because they wanted to get rid of him," Nancy Hansen said.

    She said the boy was very skinny when they picked him up, and he told them he had been beaten with a broom handle at the orphanage.

    There was no response to a knock at Torry Hansen's door, and a phone listing couldn't be found for her. Her mother also declined to put AP in touch with her.

    The U.S. ambassador to Russia, John Beyrle, said he was "deeply shocked by the news" and "very angry that any family would act so callously toward a child that they had legally adopted."

    Anna Orlova, a spokeswoman for Kremlin's Children Rights Commissioner, said she visited the boy and he told her that his mother was "bad," "did not love him" and used to pull his hair.
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    It is tragic that this child has suffered through such abuse that left him with these issues, IF indeed any of it is true. I hope he finds the care he needs, and this does not just add another layer to his emotional scars.
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    I find this utterly appalling. When you adopt a child, he or she becomes YOUR child, just as if he or she were a biological child you gave birth to. Would any reasonable parent give away their biological child because he/she had issues? If that were the case, I guess the vast majority of parents would have had cause to dump our kids at some point in their lives. What was this woman thinking???
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    This whole story from the start just seemed fishy to me. I am very sure there are a LOT of things that aren't being reported.

    Sad situation all around, and it is affecting children not even remotely involved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Karen View Post
    It is tragic that this child has suffered through such abuse that left him with these issues, IF indeed any of it is true. I hope he finds the care he needs, and this does not just add another layer to his emotional scars.
    I agree. It is just so tragic.

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    One story I read said that the boy did have an attendant assigned to him, as they often do with kids traveling alone.

    Will be great when the truth finally comes out.
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    My friend adopted four children she is a Dr. One of the children, a girl is the product of a crack addick. This girl is now 14 and has so many medical and emotional problelms. Very, very few people could love, support and parent this child. The time, money and effort are more then most of us can imagine. Because her mother used drugs the entire time she was pregnant, this young girl will probably never have a normal life. She is bi-polar and other health related issues and suffers from mood swings that would make most of us drink.
    Some of these children can be evil, there is something just not right in their brains. Yes I believe this mom when she says he would burn the house down. Imagine, laying in bed at night, worring if your child that you love, support and try to help 24/7 might kill you or another family member?

    That he might stab a smaller brother or sister in the night, or sufficate with a pillow, or set the room on fire, throw a baby down the steps or put in an oven.

    What would you do if you gave birth to a child like this? Were can you go for help, and what if you have no insurance or the meds arent' working and every night you live in fear of being murdered by your own child?

    Frankly if he was all she said, I would have sent him back as well.
    Sometimes evil cannot be stopped or helped and one has to protect ones family and one self.

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    There are too many untold stories on both sides of the fence, and I'd have a difficult time taking sides with either, until all is revealed. However, if this child was as bad and messed up as the U.S. mother claims he was, then I would be afraid for my own safety and that of my home and family too. If the Russians did hold back info that would have influenced the adoptive parents, then I can't say that I blame her for what she did.
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    Another story that offers a different perspective.

    http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/36630089...and_parenting/
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